Bingo-Player
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haha i like this !
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How are women able to go from high interest to low interest in such a short period
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haha i like this !
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
teebear
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Let's talk about the elephant in the room: physical attraction. I think it plays a MUCH bigger role in our interactions with women than we'd like to admit.
I'm beginning to think that it doesn't matter how good your game is; if a woman doesn't think that you're a stud from the get-go, you're done. Good game keeps you in contention in relation to guys of equal SMV but if you're a 7 to her and in competition with an 8, she's gonna choose the 8 every time unless he is a complete and utter doofus. I mean, he'd have to be a total disaster to lose to a less physically attractive man.
I don't mean to rain on anybody's parade but I think that a lot of the hand-wringing and introspection that goes on around here could be avoided if we were more honest about the role that looks play in attracting women. It is still BY FAR the most important thing in determining whether you get to mix it up with 6's and 7's or 8's and 9's.
I'm beginning to think that it doesn't matter how good your game is; if a woman doesn't think that you're a stud from the get-go, you're done. Good game keeps you in contention in relation to guys of equal SMV but if you're a 7 to her and in competition with an 8, she's gonna choose the 8 every time unless he is a complete and utter doofus. I mean, he'd have to be a total disaster to lose to a less physically attractive man.
I don't mean to rain on anybody's parade but I think that a lot of the hand-wringing and introspection that goes on around here could be avoided if we were more honest about the role that looks play in attracting women. It is still BY FAR the most important thing in determining whether you get to mix it up with 6's and 7's or 8's and 9's.
teebear
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I just don't think that a text proves high interest, especially if you've never had sex with the girl in question.
Anyway, most of us have had to shake stuff like this off a few times. I know that I certainly have. It goes with the territory.
Anyway, most of us have had to shake stuff like this off a few times. I know that I certainly have. It goes with the territory.
guru1000
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Agree with Teebear, in the context of hot turning cold. OP, perhaps you looked like crap that night at the club; made her reconsider.
Have you ever met a hot girl, only to find her on a first or second date not so hot? What do you do in that situation, eject?
Have you ever met a hot girl, only to find her on a first or second date not so hot? What do you do in that situation, eject?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.