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MillionBillionaire said:
haha i like this !
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How are women able to go from high interest to low interest in such a short period
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haha i like this !
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Let's talk about the elephant in the room: physical attraction. I think it plays a MUCH bigger role in our interactions with women than we'd like to admit.
I'm beginning to think that it doesn't matter how good your game is; if a woman doesn't think that you're a stud from the get-go, you're done. Good game keeps you in contention in relation to guys of equal SMV but if you're a 7 to her and in competition with an 8, she's gonna choose the 8 every time unless he is a complete and utter doofus. I mean, he'd have to be a total disaster to lose to a less physically attractive man.
I don't mean to rain on anybody's parade but I think that a lot of the hand-wringing and introspection that goes on around here could be avoided if we were more honest about the role that looks play in attracting women. It is still BY FAR the most important thing in determining whether you get to mix it up with 6's and 7's or 8's and 9's.
I'm beginning to think that it doesn't matter how good your game is; if a woman doesn't think that you're a stud from the get-go, you're done. Good game keeps you in contention in relation to guys of equal SMV but if you're a 7 to her and in competition with an 8, she's gonna choose the 8 every time unless he is a complete and utter doofus. I mean, he'd have to be a total disaster to lose to a less physically attractive man.
I don't mean to rain on anybody's parade but I think that a lot of the hand-wringing and introspection that goes on around here could be avoided if we were more honest about the role that looks play in attracting women. It is still BY FAR the most important thing in determining whether you get to mix it up with 6's and 7's or 8's and 9's.
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I just don't think that a text proves high interest, especially if you've never had sex with the girl in question.
Anyway, most of us have had to shake stuff like this off a few times. I know that I certainly have. It goes with the territory.
Anyway, most of us have had to shake stuff like this off a few times. I know that I certainly have. It goes with the territory.
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Agree with Teebear, in the context of hot turning cold. OP, perhaps you looked like crap that night at the club; made her reconsider.
Have you ever met a hot girl, only to find her on a first or second date not so hot? What do you do in that situation, eject?
Have you ever met a hot girl, only to find her on a first or second date not so hot? What do you do in that situation, eject?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.