"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How are most women able to sleep at night

lux1984

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most women are dumb. 3 out of 4 got me effed up and I'm one of them. LOL It's our biology and socialization mixed in with some crazy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sambwoy

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VladPatton said:
Because when it comes to men that do not make their taco tingle, they have zero remorse or care. Make their taco drip and it's a whole different story. Money, job, status, all go out the window.
As does attitude- a 'hottie' could get them interested even when he's on a funk, because in the girls' eyes he's 'so adorable when he cries'. Bleaghh. Our campaigning for positivity and confidence in society, in young people especially, is skewed, including the messages from the women who preach morals, who don't like it when boys look at nudie pictures, even just one, but will flock to the 'net with 'her girls' when a nude men website catches their eye.
 

sambwoy

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Grisou said:
The fault is yours if you get screwed over, used or whatever else.
You have put your trust in the wrong hands.
Why did you do that in the first place?
'Trust' is not a word I would associate with this subject. Rather 'confidence'.
 

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bigneil said:
Thank you for not commiserating.

Guys, if a girl likes you she will make it painfully obvious. Everyone in the room will know it. If she's your waitress she will put her elbows on the bar and stare into your eyes from 6 inches away. On a date she will say "I'm having fun, are you having fun?" If you're not the man that everyone in the room is envious of, you won't be able to have any woman at your command. If you are such a man, you can snap your fingers and she'll be there.
Quoted for truth.

If women are biologically predisposed to seek out the most high-value man around, then the more high-value you become, the easier it is for you to get laid; and this is why it is vital IMO that, prior to picking up women, men work on their physical looks because this will make getting women virtually effortless just as long as you are socially calibrated.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Don't be a hypocrite. If a fat girl approached you, you'd reject her with no remorse.

If you're butthurt about women turning you down, try men.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to skinnyguy again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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