"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How are jeans supposed to fit?

Shyyhs

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I've been told before that a key to all this is to have a nice expensive pair of jeans that "fit". I'm just confused on the fit part. What is the proper fit?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fit depends on your style. I wear jeans differently depending on shirt shoes and situation.
 

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im no fashion guru but i think jeans should fit you where they accentuate ur body curves i.e. ur butt. If jeans u wear are too saggy and u cant see ur butt then thats a problem. But at the same time, they should be loose enough not to look homosexual. I usually go for relaxed fit cut.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Before anybody says anything, Gap's jeans are actually pretty good these days. Their standard fit is a good fit to go by.

It really depends on your bodytype and what look you're going for. The slim fit, and even extremely slim fit look is kinda "in" these days, but you need a slim body to pull it off, and personally I think it looks retarded unless you can really pull it off. It may be "in style", but it's hardly sexy or masculine. Nothing's worse than shin-hugger jeans.

You don't want too baggy, either. I'd say something that hugs your butt just a little bit, but still a little loose through the leg.
 

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I have a solid build. I have big hockey legs. I don't know what I'm looking for to be exact. I've been told I wear things that are too big. I figured out how to solve the shirt problem because I was told what I should look for, but jeans I have no clue.
 

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baggy is a huge no-no

get a relaxed fit

expensive jeans aren't the "key" to anything but debt - with that said, i prefer rock & republic jeans to most brands, although there are some great lines you can find from different designers.
 

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^ also true. Unless you specially want the kind of styles that tend to only be available in really expensive jeans, don't bother with them. They're a waste of money. You can get very nice looking, nice fitting, comfortable jeans that won't fall apart for well under a hundred dollars.
 

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That last pair of jeans I bought were at Old Navy, on sail for $20. So Cheapies. I tried to go for a tighter fit, but It doesn't hug my a$$. I'd guess baggy at the a$$.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude, just have a female friend take you to the mall and dress you up

it's that easy
 

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I use Levis SilverTab Baggy.
 

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Not too lose nor too tight for me. I see guys wearing girl jeans sometimes but my legs are too big from lifting to wear those, haha!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shyyhs

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ready123 said:
dude, just have a female friend take you to the mall and dress you up

it's that easy
I don't have female friends.
 

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Yeah definitely go with jeans that 'fit' your body. That kinowear site seems to discuss this thoroughly.
 
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