"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How are jeans supposed to fit?

Shyyhs

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I've been told before that a key to all this is to have a nice expensive pair of jeans that "fit". I'm just confused on the fit part. What is the proper fit?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fit depends on your style. I wear jeans differently depending on shirt shoes and situation.
 

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im no fashion guru but i think jeans should fit you where they accentuate ur body curves i.e. ur butt. If jeans u wear are too saggy and u cant see ur butt then thats a problem. But at the same time, they should be loose enough not to look homosexual. I usually go for relaxed fit cut.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Before anybody says anything, Gap's jeans are actually pretty good these days. Their standard fit is a good fit to go by.

It really depends on your bodytype and what look you're going for. The slim fit, and even extremely slim fit look is kinda "in" these days, but you need a slim body to pull it off, and personally I think it looks retarded unless you can really pull it off. It may be "in style", but it's hardly sexy or masculine. Nothing's worse than shin-hugger jeans.

You don't want too baggy, either. I'd say something that hugs your butt just a little bit, but still a little loose through the leg.
 

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I have a solid build. I have big hockey legs. I don't know what I'm looking for to be exact. I've been told I wear things that are too big. I figured out how to solve the shirt problem because I was told what I should look for, but jeans I have no clue.
 

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baggy is a huge no-no

get a relaxed fit

expensive jeans aren't the "key" to anything but debt - with that said, i prefer rock & republic jeans to most brands, although there are some great lines you can find from different designers.
 

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^ also true. Unless you specially want the kind of styles that tend to only be available in really expensive jeans, don't bother with them. They're a waste of money. You can get very nice looking, nice fitting, comfortable jeans that won't fall apart for well under a hundred dollars.
 

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That last pair of jeans I bought were at Old Navy, on sail for $20. So Cheapies. I tried to go for a tighter fit, but It doesn't hug my a$$. I'd guess baggy at the a$$.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dude, just have a female friend take you to the mall and dress you up

it's that easy
 

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I use Levis SilverTab Baggy.
 

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Not too lose nor too tight for me. I see guys wearing girl jeans sometimes but my legs are too big from lifting to wear those, haha!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Shyyhs

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ready123 said:
dude, just have a female friend take you to the mall and dress you up

it's that easy
I don't have female friends.
 

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Yeah definitely go with jeans that 'fit' your body. That kinowear site seems to discuss this thoroughly.
 
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