"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How and why women manipulate men

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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all civilizations regarded women as property to be owned by their husbands like animals or boats...this is a woman's place to be rightfully owned by a man.

In the west this has largely been eroded

why?

Because women easily manipulate men..women evolved to manipulate men.....and governments easily manipulate women through fear.....so governments give women power over men to enslave them.... :)....this way it doesn't look like the government has enslaved men....I mean its the ex-wife causing you to pay alimony for 20 years not the gubberment...whoops!

what a fantastic system of slavery....women run amuck buying every shiny thing in sight....debt economies are promoted...men have no choice but to buy in if they want womyn...so they are enslaved to debt


most men are too blind to connect the dots.
 

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A good quote from that site:

"Western women still manage successfully to portray themselves as being superior to their men and continually worthy of special privileges and considerations.

Well. Quite clearly. This would simply not be possible were it not for their astonishing skills when it comes to manipulation. Furthermore, even though it is men who make up the vast majority of victims when it comes to violence, crime, homelessness, physical and mental illness, premature death, suicide, war, accidents at work, loss of home, loss of children and, indeed, when it comes to most other things, it is still the case that women victims get most of the attention, most of the sympathy and most of the funding.

And so, once again. This would simply not be possible were it not for their astonishing skills when it comes to manipulation.

The skills that women have, and the ones that they are most predisposed to use, do not cure diseases. They do not make important discoveries. They do not tap the resources of the earth. They do not even build houses.

Their skills are mostly aimed toward manipulating males."
 

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samspade said:
If you're being manipulated, ask yourself why you are permitting it to happen.
True. But first you have to know its happening bro.

Most men don't.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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^

Its pretty much a given that most men these days are arrogant and chest thumping thinking they have *control* of their lives and their womyn when their wives are banging 3 dudes at once on the side

...then when she files for no fault divorce takes his house and kids he acts 'surprised'

...his ego investment in himself has been shattered and he is near suicidal...this is the stupidity of modern man....he thinks he is far smarter than he is.

Modern man doesn't read Esther Villar....when he really should :)
 

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I think "The Manipulated Man" by Esther should be required reading for anyone looking to unplug from the system.

The dj bible
The Manipulated Man
The 48 laws of power

These three books should be at the top of the reading list for any man tbh
 
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