"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How and why women manipulate men

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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all civilizations regarded women as property to be owned by their husbands like animals or boats...this is a woman's place to be rightfully owned by a man.

In the west this has largely been eroded

why?

Because women easily manipulate men..women evolved to manipulate men.....and governments easily manipulate women through fear.....so governments give women power over men to enslave them.... :)....this way it doesn't look like the government has enslaved men....I mean its the ex-wife causing you to pay alimony for 20 years not the gubberment...whoops!

what a fantastic system of slavery....women run amuck buying every shiny thing in sight....debt economies are promoted...men have no choice but to buy in if they want womyn...so they are enslaved to debt


most men are too blind to connect the dots.
 

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A good quote from that site:

"Western women still manage successfully to portray themselves as being superior to their men and continually worthy of special privileges and considerations.

Well. Quite clearly. This would simply not be possible were it not for their astonishing skills when it comes to manipulation. Furthermore, even though it is men who make up the vast majority of victims when it comes to violence, crime, homelessness, physical and mental illness, premature death, suicide, war, accidents at work, loss of home, loss of children and, indeed, when it comes to most other things, it is still the case that women victims get most of the attention, most of the sympathy and most of the funding.

And so, once again. This would simply not be possible were it not for their astonishing skills when it comes to manipulation.

The skills that women have, and the ones that they are most predisposed to use, do not cure diseases. They do not make important discoveries. They do not tap the resources of the earth. They do not even build houses.

Their skills are mostly aimed toward manipulating males."
 

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samspade said:
If you're being manipulated, ask yourself why you are permitting it to happen.
True. But first you have to know its happening bro.

Most men don't.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^

Its pretty much a given that most men these days are arrogant and chest thumping thinking they have *control* of their lives and their womyn when their wives are banging 3 dudes at once on the side

...then when she files for no fault divorce takes his house and kids he acts 'surprised'

...his ego investment in himself has been shattered and he is near suicidal...this is the stupidity of modern man....he thinks he is far smarter than he is.

Modern man doesn't read Esther Villar....when he really should :)
 

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I think "The Manipulated Man" by Esther should be required reading for anyone looking to unplug from the system.

The dj bible
The Manipulated Man
The 48 laws of power

These three books should be at the top of the reading list for any man tbh
 
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