I've always had a problem with kino. I've realized that getting girls is a lot easier if you apply kino, but i don't know how and when to use it effectively. Up until now I haven't been afc, but then again, I haven't ever gotten a girl. I'm not ugly, and i get called cute a lot, but like I said, I don't get girls. My friends have always gotten girls and up until now I didn't know why. They know how to use kino, and I don't. What would be good ways to increase my use of kino? I've never really used it before, and I feel like it's about time I hone my skills. Keep in mind that I'm a sophomore in highschool
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How and when to use kino effectively?
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Use it to emphasize a statement. If you're telling a joke, use it during the punchline. If you're telling a key event unfolding in a story, use it then. Touch her before you say goodbye. Nudge her if she says something funny. Little things like that. Be natural. You want your touch to be associated with positive feelings and excitement.
This is key: Don't over do it. It will ruin your chances. It will make the women uncomfortable or make you seem to "touchy feely".
This is key: Don't over do it. It will ruin your chances. It will make the women uncomfortable or make you seem to "touchy feely".
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Just use it to emphasize whatever you're saying. Be subtle. I do it and it works.Jokerlsk said:But how would I use it when telling a joke?
During the climax of the joke, tap her arm and smile. If she laughs, softly nudge her. If you're relating something to her, gently touch her.
Little things like that. Be creative but subtle. It shouldn't be very noticeable, save that for when you escalate. You essentially just want to subconsciously make her feel more comfortable with your touch.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Depends on the situation. Kino takes a good three to six months to really get down pat. Lots of trial and error.Jokerlsk said:Thanks a lot tsmith, you're the man. What should I do when it is time to escalate?
Start off with the little games people do to initiate touching. Make fun of her and poke her, pretend to compliment her bracelet and really just use it as an excuse to touch her wrist. Stuff like that.
Than you can make it a little more natural and be more spontaneous. I was talking to an old fling at the bar and I could tell she was still super attracted to me. At times I would literally just press my hand against hers for long periods of time while we talked and she was very responsive.
In a sense what you want do is literally "escalate". Put an arm around her, hold her, walk arm in arm, hold her hand... stuff that two people would do when they are romantically involved.
I've heard running your fingers through her hair is a really good one, but that's pretty advanced, even for me. I don't think I've ever been able to pull it off. If you can though, supposedly it is very sensual.
I think the hips are a real sensitive area for women. If you are talking to her up close and the vibe seems like escalation is possible, touch her hip for a few seconds. It worked like a charm for me with a girl I had a thing for last year. As soon as I touched her hips (I was leaving the bar and saying goodbye), she grabbed my wrist and asked me where I'd be headed to next.
A lot of women use kino intrinsically, our job is to make it work for us.
Over time you'll also be able to gauge how responsive she is by the kino you're getting from her. It's usually a two way street. If she does something like put her hands on your stomach or chest, she is VERY INTERESTED. Send her some kino back and next she'll be kissing your neck. Watch!