I've always had a problem with kino. I've realized that getting girls is a lot easier if you apply kino, but i don't know how and when to use it effectively. Up until now I haven't been afc, but then again, I haven't ever gotten a girl. I'm not ugly, and i get called cute a lot, but like I said, I don't get girls. My friends have always gotten girls and up until now I didn't know why. They know how to use kino, and I don't. What would be good ways to increase my use of kino? I've never really used it before, and I feel like it's about time I hone my skills. Keep in mind that I'm a sophomore in highschool
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How and when to use kino effectively?
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Use it to emphasize a statement. If you're telling a joke, use it during the punchline. If you're telling a key event unfolding in a story, use it then. Touch her before you say goodbye. Nudge her if she says something funny. Little things like that. Be natural. You want your touch to be associated with positive feelings and excitement.
This is key: Don't over do it. It will ruin your chances. It will make the women uncomfortable or make you seem to "touchy feely".
This is key: Don't over do it. It will ruin your chances. It will make the women uncomfortable or make you seem to "touchy feely".
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Just use it to emphasize whatever you're saying. Be subtle. I do it and it works.Jokerlsk said:But how would I use it when telling a joke?
During the climax of the joke, tap her arm and smile. If she laughs, softly nudge her. If you're relating something to her, gently touch her.
Little things like that. Be creative but subtle. It shouldn't be very noticeable, save that for when you escalate. You essentially just want to subconsciously make her feel more comfortable with your touch.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Depends on the situation. Kino takes a good three to six months to really get down pat. Lots of trial and error.Jokerlsk said:Thanks a lot tsmith, you're the man. What should I do when it is time to escalate?
Start off with the little games people do to initiate touching. Make fun of her and poke her, pretend to compliment her bracelet and really just use it as an excuse to touch her wrist. Stuff like that.
Than you can make it a little more natural and be more spontaneous. I was talking to an old fling at the bar and I could tell she was still super attracted to me. At times I would literally just press my hand against hers for long periods of time while we talked and she was very responsive.
In a sense what you want do is literally "escalate". Put an arm around her, hold her, walk arm in arm, hold her hand... stuff that two people would do when they are romantically involved.
I've heard running your fingers through her hair is a really good one, but that's pretty advanced, even for me. I don't think I've ever been able to pull it off. If you can though, supposedly it is very sensual.
I think the hips are a real sensitive area for women. If you are talking to her up close and the vibe seems like escalation is possible, touch her hip for a few seconds. It worked like a charm for me with a girl I had a thing for last year. As soon as I touched her hips (I was leaving the bar and saying goodbye), she grabbed my wrist and asked me where I'd be headed to next.
A lot of women use kino intrinsically, our job is to make it work for us.
Over time you'll also be able to gauge how responsive she is by the kino you're getting from her. It's usually a two way street. If she does something like put her hands on your stomach or chest, she is VERY INTERESTED. Send her some kino back and next she'll be kissing your neck. Watch!