"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it was between 2001 and 2002 for me made slot of sense back then
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think I discovered it in 2016. I was in high school and had some problems with some girl, I needed similar situations and how to act right lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I googled=Why are Women so vindictive or manipulative and a thread popped up here. Lurked for a while then signed up. I have some patina on me but we never stop learning. Now I'm trying understand the abbreviations and pill colors.
 
Black Widow Void

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About ten years ago.
After a relationship, I was experiencing some 'post-breakup vertigo' (mind was in a fog) . I couldn't think clearly and as a result, my return (game wise) was way off. I found this place through a search engine. This place was a great help for being able to spring back to my old self.
 
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I had gotten absolutely nowhere with women for about 5 years before finally starting to wake up early in 2013. Went on Google searching for advice and all I found was crappy pickup lines for the next few months. Then I found a local blog in my language and it hit a lot deeper, they had a forum and someone linked to "Book of Pook" which in turn lead me to this forum.

Before I even finished "Book of Pook" I had gotten laid twice, so I knew I had struck gold and I joined the forum for further input. I stayed for the opportunity to help others break ttrough regarding women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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2002.. my high school girlfriend had left me destroyed and decided to see other people. I went down a path of self improvement and found this forum. As I was reading I realized I was doing everything wrong... and ate the info up. I got myself shredded after that break up... started dressing and acting right and found myself banging girls I always assumed were out of my league! It was 2 years later I saw my ex out and had her begging me to take her back.... she said she couldn’t believe what I became. I respectfully shot her down.
 
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Machine10033 said:
2002.. my high school girlfriend had left me destroyed and decided to see other people. I went down a path of self improvement and found this forum. As I was reading I realized I was doing everything wrong... and ate the info up. I got myself shredded after that break up... started dressing and acting right and found myself banging girls I always assumed were out of my league! It was 2 years later I saw my ex out and had her begging me to take her back.... she said she couldn’t believe what I became. I respectfully shot her down.
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This forum is definitely underrated, considering how long it has been out here and is still active.
 
speed dawg

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2005. Didn't post for about a year. Just read about all the dumb sh*t I had been doing. I will never forget the 3 girls who brought me here either. For whatever reason, I was scoring phone numbers from pretty good looking women, dates and the initial ass but I could not hold onto any of them. Came here and relearned everything. I was lucky enough that Rollo T, Tits and others were regular posters at the time, so I got slapped early and often until it set in.
 
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I've read Neil Strauss's book "The Game" 3 times, for entertainment purposes. The last time I did that was after a 3year-relatiobship. The book mentioned a pick-up community, so I looked up a forum on this and stumbled on SS.
It's amazing how a mediocre pick-up book can guide you towards such a helpful community, not only in the ways of seduction.
Thanks everyone for sharing your ideas!
 
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Wanted to f*ck b*tches and get r*ch, had none of those, tried to get information on how to get to those, found about red pill on reddit, later, i had started reading some books about the subject, till one of them mentioned so suave so i decided to check it out, then i saw all the great content here and thought this would be a very good place to develop my character. BTW i started checking the wealth and success tab first, and the advices of how to combat procrastination was what held me here, i would read that post almost every day before getting to work, to grab the right mindset and oh boy that did help me. All of this happened early 2020.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I needed advice one day, been here since, definitely needed to be here to confirm most of the affirmations I had in my head from most of my experiences.
 
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speed dawg said:
2005. Didn't post for about a year. Just read about all the dumb sh*t I had been doing. I will never forget the 3 girls who brought me here either. For whatever reason, I was scoring phone numbers from pretty good looking women, dates and the initial ass but I could not hold onto any of them. Came here and relearned everything. I was lucky enough that Rollo T, Tits and others were regular posters at the time, so I got slapped early and often until it set in.
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And when you come to conclusion what you were doing wrong, what was it? Were you needy or pushy too much?
 
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And when you come to conclusion what you were doing wrong, what was it? Were you needy or pushy too much?
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I had to re-learn everything. I had come up thinking you put the woman on the pedestal, do whatever she wanted to do, shower them with attention and buy them gifts for every sappy holiday. I would totally put myself in their frame and obsess/plan to marry them immediately. Had no idea how the real world worked.

Also could not understand why some guys could keep girls yet still did some of these needy things as me. I wasn't factoring natural ability, money, status, etc. It's a sliding scale.
 
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