"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How Americans get their sodium

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http://healthland.time.com/2012/02/08/top-10-sources-of-salt-in-your-diet/

10 foods account for 44% of all the sodium we eat. Broken down, they are:

1 Bread and rolls, 7.4%

2 Cold cuts/cured meats, 5.1%

3 Pizza, 4.9%

4 Fresh and processed poultry, 4.5%

5 Soups, 4.3%

6 Sandwiches like cheeseburgers, 4%

7 Cheese, 3.8%

8 Pasta dishes like spaghetti with meat sauce, 3.3%

9 Meat dishes like meatloaf with tomato sauce, 3.2%

10 Snacks, including chips, pretzels, popcorn and puffs, 3.1%
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Foods I've been eliminating or cutting down on.
 

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Yeah I'd say every single one of those should never be consumed more than a serving at a time.

Now, I love spaghetti as my wife's family is Italian, but I know I can't indulge constantly in that stuff. Most of the mainstream Italian food was invented to feed lots of people cheaply, basically to survive. You're really not supposed to gorge on pasta and pizza. American marketing has contributed to that in my opinion.
 
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