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How accurate is the dilation of pupils in terms of interest?
I remember reading somewhere that dilation of the pupils during a conversation or just when you're looking at the person means high interest. I had a conversation with this one girl that i've been interested in for a little while, flirted, a little kino, but I wanted to test that theory out about the pupils. Turns out her eyes were Huge in terms of pupils. I wonder how accurate that is?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by arcilitei34
How accurate is the dilation of pupils in terms of interest?
I remember reading somewhere that dilation of the pupils during a conversation or just when you're looking at the person means high interest. I had a conversation with this one girl that i've been interested in for a little while, flirted, a little kino, but I wanted to test that theory out about the pupils. Turns out her eyes were Huge in terms of pupils. I wonder how accurate that is?
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there are many factors determining pupil dialation, maybe she was coked up and that's why you hit it off so well?
 
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Dilation probbly plays some role, but don't just make a decision on how she feels about you just on that .
 
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that's just one variable in the whole equation.

there is no ONE factor that determines whether she's into you or not. It takes a variance of cues and ticks in body language.

a valid and powerful variable, yes, but don't focus too much on controlling just one variable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wouldn’t put to much faith in Dilation. It varies from girl to girl. And everything else can affect it. You have to base your decisions on multiple things.
I also had a friend that would dilate her eyes every time she would get surprised or interested in something.
 
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