"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How accurate is the dilation of pupils in terms of interest?
I remember reading somewhere that dilation of the pupils during a conversation or just when you're looking at the person means high interest. I had a conversation with this one girl that i've been interested in for a little while, flirted, a little kino, but I wanted to test that theory out about the pupils. Turns out her eyes were Huge in terms of pupils. I wonder how accurate that is?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by arcilitei34
How accurate is the dilation of pupils in terms of interest?
I remember reading somewhere that dilation of the pupils during a conversation or just when you're looking at the person means high interest. I had a conversation with this one girl that i've been interested in for a little while, flirted, a little kino, but I wanted to test that theory out about the pupils. Turns out her eyes were Huge in terms of pupils. I wonder how accurate that is?
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there are many factors determining pupil dialation, maybe she was coked up and that's why you hit it off so well?
 
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Dilation probbly plays some role, but don't just make a decision on how she feels about you just on that .
 
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that's just one variable in the whole equation.

there is no ONE factor that determines whether she's into you or not. It takes a variance of cues and ticks in body language.

a valid and powerful variable, yes, but don't focus too much on controlling just one variable.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wouldn’t put to much faith in Dilation. It varies from girl to girl. And everything else can affect it. You have to base your decisions on multiple things.
I also had a friend that would dilate her eyes every time she would get surprised or interested in something.
 
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