"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How about adding this new sub forum to this site?

david90

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There should be a forum just for people who has self confidence issues and can't approach. I think approaching girls is 70-80 percent of DJing so shouldn't it deserve its own forum like health and fitness?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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undesputable

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ha thats what the high school forum is for....
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by undesputable
ha thats what the high school forum is for....
BA ZING!

That's what this whole site is about we don't need a singular forum for that.
 

david90

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A guy who has Djing skills won't get a chance to use them if he's afriad to approach. On the other hand, an AFC who's fearless when it comes to approaching has a better chance cuz there are girls that like AFCs.

It's just a suggestion. I don't really care that much about it because the site is pretty good as is. I just thought it would better if we add it because it puts more emphasis on approaching/rejection handling/self worth,esteem IMO is an important step to becoming a master dj.
 
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