"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How about adding this new sub forum to this site?

david90

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There should be a forum just for people who has self confidence issues and can't approach. I think approaching girls is 70-80 percent of DJing so shouldn't it deserve its own forum like health and fitness?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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undesputable

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ha thats what the high school forum is for....
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
ha thats what the high school forum is for....
BA ZING!

That's what this whole site is about we don't need a singular forum for that.
 

david90

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A guy who has Djing skills won't get a chance to use them if he's afriad to approach. On the other hand, an AFC who's fearless when it comes to approaching has a better chance cuz there are girls that like AFCs.

It's just a suggestion. I don't really care that much about it because the site is pretty good as is. I just thought it would better if we add it because it puts more emphasis on approaching/rejection handling/self worth,esteem IMO is an important step to becoming a master dj.
 
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