Chubbs Peterson
Senior Don Juan
Chubbs here.
Been gone for a while. I was in what was mostly a good relationship. While I was in the relationship, I used a lot of what I learned here at Sosuave....but only up to a point.
The good part was that I had to figure out a lot of things out on my own. I rather enjoyed the challenge and the success that it brought. But my relationship started going in directions that I could not anticipate, I didn't feel that I could turn to Sosuave.
After a while, I'd like to think that many DJs would eventually start seeing someone for longer than 3 months. At that point there are questions and situations that come up which this website is tradionally weak to address. And that's part of the reason many people LEAVE the site. The site doesn't GROW WITH US.
I don't know how popular it would be, but I sure would've loved to have a place to go to figure out how to transition successfully into a relationship, and how to maintain it for more than a few months.
Been gone for a while. I was in what was mostly a good relationship. While I was in the relationship, I used a lot of what I learned here at Sosuave....but only up to a point.
The good part was that I had to figure out a lot of things out on my own. I rather enjoyed the challenge and the success that it brought. But my relationship started going in directions that I could not anticipate, I didn't feel that I could turn to Sosuave.
After a while, I'd like to think that many DJs would eventually start seeing someone for longer than 3 months. At that point there are questions and situations that come up which this website is tradionally weak to address. And that's part of the reason many people LEAVE the site. The site doesn't GROW WITH US.
I don't know how popular it would be, but I sure would've loved to have a place to go to figure out how to transition successfully into a relationship, and how to maintain it for more than a few months.