"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How about a redesign?

zinc

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I know the site has a lot of content now so this could be very time consuming but I feel the current style isn't very refined. As the whole DJ thing is about refining outselves and improving our techniques I feel the front-page feel of the site lets it down when you first visit.

After a while you get used to it and even grow to like the simple layout but I think something a little cleaner could remain easily readable but also more professional and in keeping with the 'suave' nature of the DJ philosophy.

Perhaps some other thoughts on the design would be interesting?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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personally i like better practical site design. I love these colors and layouts here. Don't change them.
 

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Wouldn't have to take longer to load. If anything the current design with its tiled background could take slightly longer. I especially think the main page is a bit weak. I think the navigation that appears on the other pages should be on the main page and the explanation of the sections should be made in a single column like an article or sorts.

Anyway, I'm not really complaining too much, it's the content that I come for, I just know the first time I came to the site I wasn't very impressed, some people are more fickle than me, might not delve deeper or something.
 

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I've been working on a redesign for months. Hired a couple people to redesign the site for me (cost a lot of money), but haven't found anything I really like yet.

Of course when I eventually do come up with a design I like, that I think totally kicks butt, I'm sure everyone will complain and say "change it back."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tome4

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
I've been working on a redesign for months. Hired a couple people to redesign the site for me (cost a lot of money), but haven't found anything I really like yet.

Of course when I eventually do come up with a design I like, that I think totally kicks butt, I'm sure everyone will complain and say "change it back."

At least we won't complain about other stuff then hehe
 

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I'm with a redisign, the front page and its links doesnt look good for a first time visitor, of course its the content that counts but a new nice design would be great, also to organise the links on the front page in columns and sectors instead of having them lying around randomly.
 

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IMPROVE

If there's room for improvement, improve!


"leave it the way it is" is the worst advice you could give


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~The_Chosen~ has spoken...

"I never hit a woman with her clothes on!"

Judge a man by his questions and not his answers.

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle
 
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