"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How about a redesign?

zinc

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I know the site has a lot of content now so this could be very time consuming but I feel the current style isn't very refined. As the whole DJ thing is about refining outselves and improving our techniques I feel the front-page feel of the site lets it down when you first visit.

After a while you get used to it and even grow to like the simple layout but I think something a little cleaner could remain easily readable but also more professional and in keeping with the 'suave' nature of the DJ philosophy.

Perhaps some other thoughts on the design would be interesting?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Squy

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personally i like better practical site design. I love these colors and layouts here. Don't change them.
 

zinc

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Wouldn't have to take longer to load. If anything the current design with its tiled background could take slightly longer. I especially think the main page is a bit weak. I think the navigation that appears on the other pages should be on the main page and the explanation of the sections should be made in a single column like an article or sorts.

Anyway, I'm not really complaining too much, it's the content that I come for, I just know the first time I came to the site I wasn't very impressed, some people are more fickle than me, might not delve deeper or something.
 

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I've been working on a redesign for months. Hired a couple people to redesign the site for me (cost a lot of money), but haven't found anything I really like yet.

Of course when I eventually do come up with a design I like, that I think totally kicks butt, I'm sure everyone will complain and say "change it back."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tome4

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
I've been working on a redesign for months. Hired a couple people to redesign the site for me (cost a lot of money), but haven't found anything I really like yet.

Of course when I eventually do come up with a design I like, that I think totally kicks butt, I'm sure everyone will complain and say "change it back."

At least we won't complain about other stuff then hehe
 

BallZ of SteeL

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I'm with a redisign, the front page and its links doesnt look good for a first time visitor, of course its the content that counts but a new nice design would be great, also to organise the links on the front page in columns and sectors instead of having them lying around randomly.
 

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IMPROVE

If there's room for improvement, improve!


"leave it the way it is" is the worst advice you could give


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~The_Chosen~ has spoken...

"I never hit a woman with her clothes on!"

Judge a man by his questions and not his answers.

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle
 
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