"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How about a Pic forum

mroriginal

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what about a forum where you post your pics to see if anyone can help you fix whats wrong with you, to get an idea of what you need to fix or to see where you stand on a scale of 1-10
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Is it just me or does it seem that the same suggestions are coming up more frequently nowadays?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Is it just me or does it seem that the same suggestions are coming up more frequently nowadays?
Actually, there's a simple explanation. A ruthless cell of internet hackers have dedicated their considerable time and energy into flooding S&F with repeats of requests for new forums.
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
what about a forum where you post your pics to see if anyone can help you fix whats wrong with you, to get an idea of what you need to fix or to see where you stand on a scale of 1-10
http://www.match.com
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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