"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How about a Pic forum

mroriginal

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what about a forum where you post your pics to see if anyone can help you fix whats wrong with you, to get an idea of what you need to fix or to see where you stand on a scale of 1-10
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Is it just me or does it seem that the same suggestions are coming up more frequently nowadays?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Is it just me or does it seem that the same suggestions are coming up more frequently nowadays?
Actually, there's a simple explanation. A ruthless cell of internet hackers have dedicated their considerable time and energy into flooding S&F with repeats of requests for new forums.
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
what about a forum where you post your pics to see if anyone can help you fix whats wrong with you, to get an idea of what you need to fix or to see where you stand on a scale of 1-10
http://www.match.com
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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