"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mroriginal

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what about a forum where you post your pics to see if anyone can help you fix whats wrong with you, to get an idea of what you need to fix or to see where you stand on a scale of 1-10
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Is it just me or does it seem that the same suggestions are coming up more frequently nowadays?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Is it just me or does it seem that the same suggestions are coming up more frequently nowadays?
Actually, there's a simple explanation. A ruthless cell of internet hackers have dedicated their considerable time and energy into flooding S&F with repeats of requests for new forums.
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
what about a forum where you post your pics to see if anyone can help you fix whats wrong with you, to get an idea of what you need to fix or to see where you stand on a scale of 1-10
http://www.match.com
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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