“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How about a game of chess......... With God!!! (My theory of life)
- Thread starter God Of War
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I'm half there with you. Life differs from chess in that it's active and if you stall for too long it will pass you by. In that way life is far more complex. I do however think that some people should take more time to think their options and moves over. Good Field Marshalls and Generals understand this in military strategics although they have a support staff in their ear giving them options and updates. Concider your actions and try to make deadlines in which you act. Strategize and conquer if you will. Play the game to come out ahead with the intentions of good things and don't give up.BluEyes said:Unlike chess, however...
Don't take 10 minutes to make a move!
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Although I see where you're coming from, I disagree with it. Being a chess player myself(PM me if any of you are as well), I know that it involves analyzation of a fixed position. Dating / Life, however...is NOT a fixed position. It's dynamic and ever-changing. If you sit there and analyze a move(in life) before making a decision, life and the situation that was originally presented will have left you in the dust.
I believe the best idea is to focus on playing the game, not winning the game. Winning will inherently come from playing the game, yet if you focus on winning, you will lose.
I do agree though, that Visualization is paramount to success at ANYTHING in life.
Sometimes instinct is the best action of course. You'll find yourself doing something then look back on that action and see how you instinctively set yourself up for the next couple of steps, but other times realize you don't have to rush into everything. I used the lincoln quote again "If someone gave me five hours to cut down a tree, I'd spend the first four sharpening my axe". Prepare and concider if you have the time. Only good things can come of this.