"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about a forties plus forum?

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Have you considered opening up an over forties forum. I post extremely rarely, but read every day, and lot of what I seem to read on the main forum seems to be be geared to the late teens, early twenties age group. It seems that rarely do I read any posts from posters in the forty to fifty age group, which is where I am, about their experiences in dealing with women who are forty plus.

There must be men out there who are in my age group that would like to read about experiences and get tips from our own age group.

Thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Iceberg

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Eww
 

Soshyopathe

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It's because by the time you are 40, you should have life figured out forward and backward. If you are still lost mid-life, might as well jump off a building.

Plus, you may be the only 40+ around here.
 

Aztec

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There are probably won't be alot of participants in that category. You are right about the discussions are geared to the late teens and early twenties. Maybe that's why alot of veteran contributors left the site, or at least went into hiding.

I suggested a section for late 20's and above in the past.
 

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guys give the rock a break...its not HIS fault this site wasnt available for him 20 years ago...i agree with ya man..there should be a small discussion area for people like you; i mean, after all, you CAN still find a women, and everyone deserves the chance to learn the DJ tactics.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Aztec

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Originally posted by machoguy123:
guys give the rock a break...its not HIS fault this site wasnt available for him 20 years ago...i agree with ya man..there should be a small discussion area for people like you; i mean, after all, you CAN still find a women, and everyone deserves the chance to learn the DJ tactics.
Oh I agree with The Rock. We should have a forum for more matured population.
 

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You might be surprised how many older guys hang out here.

We used to have a "Mature Man" forum. All the mature men preferred to post in the main forum.
 

I_Eat_Playdough

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Well maybe the term "mature man" sucked and no one wanted to post there.

May as well call it "Old geezer forum for the bald"
 

RDtoo

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Originally posted by I_Eat_Playdough:
Well maybe the term "mature man" sucked and no one wanted to post there.

May as well call it "Old geezer forum for the bald"
Im with the Rock. New here. This is my first post. I am in my 40s and yes, trying to figure out the dating game. No problem with approaching women, eye contact, etc, but not seeing any action, thus I ended up here. Hope I can contribute some things here and there, but would like to see advice for older budding DJs.
 

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I posted to this last night but it didnt show up. I am new here and 40 plus. Have been learning alot from the DJ Bible and fianally decided to register. Kudos to the webmaster for all the valuable info. I would be interested in a forum or at least some more threads geared towards the older males. Unlike some of the younger guys I do not have any problems approaching women, but still alone enough to seek advice, and here I am. I am surprized at a few of the comments that seem to think that it is sick for an older guy to be a budding DJ. You would think they would give us credit. Believe it or not guys, women like a fine wine, get better with age, but the game remains the same.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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We did have a Mature forum here and I think it was called the "Mature forum."

The website admin (Allen) reworked the forums and that forum was dropped due to low participation. The Humor forum was also dropped. The HS, Archive and anything else forums were added.

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