"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hamer

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Here is my story .. I am living in Europe, I knew this girl since two years, specially in the past two monthes we becom more close ... often we go out to a night movie, we are jogging together etc ... when we started our friendship she told me that she has a boy friend. My problem is ..she is giving me often a double sign ...I am very comfused, on one side I think that is only in friendly way ..on the other side it seems she wants more than friendship. Last Thrusday we've been in movie ..she choosed a sit which is sofa for two ppls that sit is specially for lovers, it is not becoz the hall is full, there are a lot of free sits.
My question is, what should I do...? shall i keep the situation like that in afriendship way... not to interfere in her relationship...or allow her for more..??
Sorry about my english
I'll take any suggestions

Thanx in advance
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TooColdUlrick

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you are on the border of blowing it. forget that friendship cr@p. first chance you see an opening to kiss her, do it.
 

Horse Whisperer

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The hard thing is you have known her for 2 years. You might be in the friend zone already. Time for decisive action my friend!

You need to be more sexual with her and quick. Next time you go out, tell her she looks sexy, is making you feel hot etc. Do it in a jokey kind of manner but she must know you are seriously into her.

This may sound slightly extreme, but I reckon that's the only way you can take it onto another level and begin to take this where you want it to go.
 

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Thanx guys,

Toocoldulrick and Penkitten ur idea is helping me to take me out from friendly zone .....as Horse Whisperer mentioned the hardest thing is my two years friendship....here I want to tell u one thing...when i met this girl we were in a kind of course ...often we hang out together ... on the 3rd or 4th day i told her that i have an interest on her...she told me that she have a boyfriend. Since then we just keep in touch by any means...sms, tel, etc...but in the last 2 monthes she act different ... that is why I came here to ask how to deal ...
Once I had a kind of strange respond from on doc women which is 5 or 6 years older than me..... seems she was intersted while we talk .... when I asked her out.... her responds was nothing...no okey or didnt say no ...:confused: if this happen again ..i'll be speachless....:(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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