"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How 2 solve this one...??

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Hi,

went to a trashy punk bar alone this week.
I realise that I like trashy punk girls from time to time.

At around 3AM, I meet this HB at the lobby.
She works in a tatoo shop nearby.

We start to talk nonsense with this other guy.
She says she has a BF but she doesnt really like him.

Before I leave, I say "lets meet some other time". She says yeah.

So I am being a useless fukin stupid as.shole and give her my business card.
Like she cares about my work...how stupid of me.

The next morning I call her up at the shop and say to her "Look, I should not have gave you my card, this is ridiculous. Could you leave me your phone# and I'll call you some other time?" She says yeah and gave me hers.

So I wait a few days and call her. She says she is having dinner with her bf (the guy she supposedly doesnt like). So I tell her I'll call back some other time. She says OK.

So I wait another few days and call back but its a guy that picks up.
Wrong number...sorry.

I am thinking of going straight to the shop and drop by to say Hi!
That would be the easiest thing to do.

Any suggestions?

Maybe she is using me to get rid of the BF or she is just lost (big possibility but she doesnt take drugs).

I have no idea why I like this girl (yes, shes really hot) and want to take it a step further.

Thanks

Y
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This sounds like bad news to me if her BF is answering her phone. Either they are living together or the guy is a psycho-stalker dweeb.

You just have to call her and ask her out - thats about it. The harder it is to get in touch with woman - the lower the interest level though...
 
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yul said:
Hi,

went to a trashy punk bar alone this week.
I realise that I like trashy punk girls from time to time.

At around 3AM, I meet this HB at the lobby.
She works in a tatoo shop nearby.

We start to talk nonsense with this other guy.
She says she has a BF but she doesnt really like him.

Before I leave, I say "lets meet some other time". She says yeah.

So I am being a useless fukin stupid as.shole and give her my business card.
Like she cares about my work...how stupid of me.

The next morning I call her up at the shop and say to her "Look, I should not have gave you my card, this is ridiculous. Could you leave me your phone# and I'll call you some other time?" She says yeah and gave me hers.

So I wait a few days and call her. She says she is having dinner with her bf (the guy she supposedly doesnt like). So I tell her I'll call back some other time. She says OK.

So I wait another few days and call back but its a guy that picks up.
Wrong number...sorry.

I am thinking of going straight to the shop and drop by to say Hi!
That would be the easiest thing to do.

Any suggestions?

Maybe she is using me to get rid of the BF or she is just lost (big possibility but she doesnt take drugs).

I have no idea why I like this girl (yes, shes really hot) and want to take it a step further.

Thanks

Y
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Why would you even want to get involved in this circus?? Your just asking for drama, that could escalate to another level. If this chick is willing to fuvk around with you while she's got a bf she hates, that really doesn't say much about her does it?? Who knows what the exact situation is, but you shouldn't be chasing girls with bfs in the first place.

If anything she should just end up being some fun you have on the side if she ever goes out with you.



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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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