"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how 2 get the girl at work

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There's this cute girl who works at the same supermarket as me) I've been there about 2 months). Now the problem is she works as a bagger while im on the other side of the store working deli. I've flirted with other girls who work with her, but only because i caught them on a smoking break. I hoped that maybe this would get the word out about me to this girl (and others ;) ). So my question is how do i find time to talk with this girl when i never find her on a break and when shes always busy up front?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just try to talk to her once, a quick little friendly convo. Then try to get her #.
 
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the problems not what to say, its how to get a cahnce to. I cant stike up a convo when shes working cause she's busy and i cant catch her while im working cause im busy.
 
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Why do new guys always have the inclination to **** where they eat?
 
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first off I'm not new, I just made a new name because i couldnt get on my old one. Second, im in the process of changing jobs so i would like to get this girl before i leave
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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