"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how 2 get the girl at work

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There's this cute girl who works at the same supermarket as me) I've been there about 2 months). Now the problem is she works as a bagger while im on the other side of the store working deli. I've flirted with other girls who work with her, but only because i caught them on a smoking break. I hoped that maybe this would get the word out about me to this girl (and others ;) ). So my question is how do i find time to talk with this girl when i never find her on a break and when shes always busy up front?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just try to talk to her once, a quick little friendly convo. Then try to get her #.
 
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the problems not what to say, its how to get a cahnce to. I cant stike up a convo when shes working cause she's busy and i cant catch her while im working cause im busy.
 
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Why do new guys always have the inclination to **** where they eat?
 
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first off I'm not new, I just made a new name because i couldnt get on my old one. Second, im in the process of changing jobs so i would like to get this girl before i leave
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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