"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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House parties...How should you use them?

WORKEROUTER

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At a recent house party, I began to become a little frustrated. It seems like the same old theme reoccurs: a bunch of desperate, horny, drunk guys attempt to woo in chicks, but in the end, nothing really happens.

And it seems like unless you're really good-looking, these chicks won't really talk to you anyway because as many are drunk, conversation can't really be had anyway.

What's the deal with this? How can one succeed at scoring in house parties? What kind of mind-set should you go in there having?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Boner da Stoner

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control pieces of situations... not too much or some ****s are going to see you if your not with a group amog but single amog, than you might get your ass beat buy a bunch of guys...

lol I can imagine now teasing a bunch of guys while they are kicking my ass that they are guy for kicking my ass and seeing them get disgusted and walk away...

I use house parties for what I went there for, for fun, I get people to do stupid things, to say stupid things, and to think stupid things.... and than I have sex with a bunch of girls
 

PRMoon

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I use to go to house parties once upon a time in college. I was really popular there as well. I coached people on how to do keg stands, played lots of drinking games, socilized with everybody and typically got to hook up with one or two girls because I didn't give a f*ck about impressing anybody there, I just came to party. later when I moved to vegas (but still in my college years) I didn't do as much socialzing but I did have quite a few people who wanted to go to the bath room with me, *cough cough* street pharmesudicals *cough cough* and that usually got me hooked up too.

My advice, don't sweat hooking up with someone at a house party. Just go there with the intentions of having a good time and try to meet new people (guys and girls) and things will usually work themselves out. Just be sure you don't get so caught up in socilizing that you over look signals being given off by a cutie. That's happened to me a bunch of times.
 

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House parties are the absolute best way to pull from straight-up social proof. Talk to EVERYONE. Open every two-set and practice HOLDING THEM until you eject. Spin girls, arm wrestle guys, be the literal life of the party. I pulled a girl I met last Friday night (before the party) by not talking to her at all at the party. I'd chat up other girls right in front of her and get everyone talking about me, then every so often I'd spank her outside of my circle. She'd hit me to try to get my attention and I'd brush off the spot where she touched me. When the party died down I took her by the hand and led her outside to kiss close. Next night I laid her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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