"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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House parties...How should you use them?

WORKEROUTER

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At a recent house party, I began to become a little frustrated. It seems like the same old theme reoccurs: a bunch of desperate, horny, drunk guys attempt to woo in chicks, but in the end, nothing really happens.

And it seems like unless you're really good-looking, these chicks won't really talk to you anyway because as many are drunk, conversation can't really be had anyway.

What's the deal with this? How can one succeed at scoring in house parties? What kind of mind-set should you go in there having?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Boner da Stoner

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control pieces of situations... not too much or some ****s are going to see you if your not with a group amog but single amog, than you might get your ass beat buy a bunch of guys...

lol I can imagine now teasing a bunch of guys while they are kicking my ass that they are guy for kicking my ass and seeing them get disgusted and walk away...

I use house parties for what I went there for, for fun, I get people to do stupid things, to say stupid things, and to think stupid things.... and than I have sex with a bunch of girls
 

PRMoon

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I use to go to house parties once upon a time in college. I was really popular there as well. I coached people on how to do keg stands, played lots of drinking games, socilized with everybody and typically got to hook up with one or two girls because I didn't give a f*ck about impressing anybody there, I just came to party. later when I moved to vegas (but still in my college years) I didn't do as much socialzing but I did have quite a few people who wanted to go to the bath room with me, *cough cough* street pharmesudicals *cough cough* and that usually got me hooked up too.

My advice, don't sweat hooking up with someone at a house party. Just go there with the intentions of having a good time and try to meet new people (guys and girls) and things will usually work themselves out. Just be sure you don't get so caught up in socilizing that you over look signals being given off by a cutie. That's happened to me a bunch of times.
 

seanchai

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House parties are the absolute best way to pull from straight-up social proof. Talk to EVERYONE. Open every two-set and practice HOLDING THEM until you eject. Spin girls, arm wrestle guys, be the literal life of the party. I pulled a girl I met last Friday night (before the party) by not talking to her at all at the party. I'd chat up other girls right in front of her and get everyone talking about me, then every so often I'd spank her outside of my circle. She'd hit me to try to get my attention and I'd brush off the spot where she touched me. When the party died down I took her by the hand and led her outside to kiss close. Next night I laid her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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