"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Im getting a lot of texts from her. She is blonde, 5'10", I'd say about 125 pounds and has big tits = way hot! And she keeps texting me late at night, but the only thing is it's not about anything really. It's not like she is like "come over" which if she did I'd be there in a second to ****. But she is just asking how I'm doing and stuff. Also, she is my friends little sister, but she is way hot so if i get a chance I'm going to dip in. But what do you guys think about the texts? No interest or something?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bigjohnson said:
No, she hates you, PM me her number.
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ahaha no way. this girl is prime. She isnt too experience but not a virgin, which means the fit will be nice if i get a shot at the price. y'all think she wants me?
 
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Either you are one of her new girlfriends or she is interested. Find out soon or stay her girlfriend forever.
 
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I Want To Be a Playa said:
She isnt too experience but not a virgin, which means the fit will be nice
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Oh jeez. What a load of crap - that has nothing to do with it dude. Anyway, good luck, I guess.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She wants you. And you're bright enough to communicate that to us by being totally in the dark about what it is she is actually saying and what you're saying in response. My God, dude. Text is so easy to flirt. When she asks how are you, say, "I'm horny as a mother ****er. Any suggestions?"
 
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Write this.

"I'm bored. Can't sleep. Entertain me."

From there you should be able to smoothly progress to either going to her place or getting her to yours if she is interested.
 
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With the small amount of detail you provided, I would say that she has an interest level, but you must throw wood in the fire, and turn up the heat. She wants YOU, the MAN, to setup a time for you guys to hang out.

Don't ask her if she likes you, don't ask her on a "date". Set your mental state that she does like you, and that it's no big deal to ask her to get together so you can up the attraction level. Be playful with her, bust on her jokingly, throw in some kino. If she's contacting you to tell you about her problems with other guys, abort mission.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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With the small amount of detail you provided, I would say that she has an interest level, but you must throw wood in the fire, and turn up the heat. She wants YOU, the MAN, to setup a time for you guys to hang out.

Don't ask her if she likes you, don't ask her on a "date". Set your mental state that she does like you, and that it's no big deal to ask her to get together so you can up the attraction level. Be playful with her, bust on her jokingly, throw in some kino. If she's contacting you to tell you about her problems with other guys, abort mission.
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now thats what im talking about, a man who knows whats up. thanks man:flowers:
 
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In other words, the same fscking advice everyone else gets about 14 times a day here. Do a search and then READ a little.
 
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I Want To Be a Playa said:
how do I find out?
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Make a move noob. Some girls keep guy friends as emotinal sponges.
 
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Jay Jay said:
"I'm bored. Can't sleep. Entertain me."
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I like this sort of approach. It is playful and forces her hand. A friend of mine used to say "I was getting ready to jack off and trying to decide what to think about, thanks for calling"; worked for him, not sure I could pull it off, no pun intended.
 
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I like this sort of approach. It is playful and forces her hand. A friend of mine used to say "I was getting ready to jack off and trying to decide what to think about, thanks for calling"; worked for him, not sure I could pull it off, no pun intended.
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Not sure you have to go that far. Just by saying "entertain me" it's pretty obvious what you mean. Unless the girl is a 19 year old bimbo... oh, wait a minute...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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realsmoothie said:
Not sure you have to go that far. Just by saying "entertain me" it's pretty obvious what you mean. Unless the girl is a 19 year old bimbo... oh, wait a minute...
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Yeah...subtle is good. You gotta make it so she knows exactly whats up, but you haven't come straight out with a horndog, perverted comment. But still, that's pretty funny. "thanks for calling" :crackup:
 
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Some people can get away with more than others. I'm sure I'd never make that work, but he was a sort of joker and he claimed it worked for him. I've seen him pull some outrageous stuff in person, so it's completely plausible.
 
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Recommendations:

1. keep analyzing this sh1t.
2. wait until she loses interest.
3. THEN, make a move.
4. then write a post about how you thought she was interested but she wasn't.

Thick, and creamy.
 
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Recommendations:

1. keep analyzing this sh1t.
2. wait until she loses interest.
3. THEN, make a move.
4. then write a post about how you thought she was interested but she wasn't.

Thick, and creamy.
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Harsh...but true. LOL!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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