Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Im getting a lot of texts from her. She is blonde, 5'10", I'd say about 125 pounds and has big tits = way hot! And she keeps texting me late at night, but the only thing is it's not about anything really. It's not like she is like "come over" which if she did I'd be there in a second to ****. But she is just asking how I'm doing and stuff. Also, she is my friends little sister, but she is way hot so if i get a chance I'm going to dip in. But what do you guys think about the texts? No interest or something?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bigjohnson said:
No, she hates you, PM me her number.
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ahaha no way. this girl is prime. She isnt too experience but not a virgin, which means the fit will be nice if i get a shot at the price. y'all think she wants me?
 
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Either you are one of her new girlfriends or she is interested. Find out soon or stay her girlfriend forever.
 
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I Want To Be a Playa said:
She isnt too experience but not a virgin, which means the fit will be nice
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Oh jeez. What a load of crap - that has nothing to do with it dude. Anyway, good luck, I guess.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She wants you. And you're bright enough to communicate that to us by being totally in the dark about what it is she is actually saying and what you're saying in response. My God, dude. Text is so easy to flirt. When she asks how are you, say, "I'm horny as a mother ****er. Any suggestions?"
 
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Write this.

"I'm bored. Can't sleep. Entertain me."

From there you should be able to smoothly progress to either going to her place or getting her to yours if she is interested.
 
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With the small amount of detail you provided, I would say that she has an interest level, but you must throw wood in the fire, and turn up the heat. She wants YOU, the MAN, to setup a time for you guys to hang out.

Don't ask her if she likes you, don't ask her on a "date". Set your mental state that she does like you, and that it's no big deal to ask her to get together so you can up the attraction level. Be playful with her, bust on her jokingly, throw in some kino. If she's contacting you to tell you about her problems with other guys, abort mission.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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With the small amount of detail you provided, I would say that she has an interest level, but you must throw wood in the fire, and turn up the heat. She wants YOU, the MAN, to setup a time for you guys to hang out.

Don't ask her if she likes you, don't ask her on a "date". Set your mental state that she does like you, and that it's no big deal to ask her to get together so you can up the attraction level. Be playful with her, bust on her jokingly, throw in some kino. If she's contacting you to tell you about her problems with other guys, abort mission.
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now thats what im talking about, a man who knows whats up. thanks man:flowers:
 
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In other words, the same fscking advice everyone else gets about 14 times a day here. Do a search and then READ a little.
 
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I Want To Be a Playa said:
how do I find out?
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Make a move noob. Some girls keep guy friends as emotinal sponges.
 
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Jay Jay said:
"I'm bored. Can't sleep. Entertain me."
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I like this sort of approach. It is playful and forces her hand. A friend of mine used to say "I was getting ready to jack off and trying to decide what to think about, thanks for calling"; worked for him, not sure I could pull it off, no pun intended.
 
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bigjohnson said:
I like this sort of approach. It is playful and forces her hand. A friend of mine used to say "I was getting ready to jack off and trying to decide what to think about, thanks for calling"; worked for him, not sure I could pull it off, no pun intended.
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Not sure you have to go that far. Just by saying "entertain me" it's pretty obvious what you mean. Unless the girl is a 19 year old bimbo... oh, wait a minute...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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realsmoothie said:
Not sure you have to go that far. Just by saying "entertain me" it's pretty obvious what you mean. Unless the girl is a 19 year old bimbo... oh, wait a minute...
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Yeah...subtle is good. You gotta make it so she knows exactly whats up, but you haven't come straight out with a horndog, perverted comment. But still, that's pretty funny. "thanks for calling" :crackup:
 
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Some people can get away with more than others. I'm sure I'd never make that work, but he was a sort of joker and he claimed it worked for him. I've seen him pull some outrageous stuff in person, so it's completely plausible.
 
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Recommendations:

1. keep analyzing this sh1t.
2. wait until she loses interest.
3. THEN, make a move.
4. then write a post about how you thought she was interested but she wasn't.

Thick, and creamy.
 
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thickandcreamy said:
Recommendations:

1. keep analyzing this sh1t.
2. wait until she loses interest.
3. THEN, make a move.
4. then write a post about how you thought she was interested but she wasn't.

Thick, and creamy.
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Harsh...but true. LOL!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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