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California...game over. :rockon:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lol, what a load of crap...genetics, wtf? As if one area produces all attractive women and another area all ugly women, LOL.sparky0000 said:One word - GENETICS!. It is that simple. Some places have it and some don't. The USA DOES NOT HAVE IT. Israel doesn't have it. Western Europe doesn't have it. Turkey, Italy, Spain, etc. do not have it. Genetics is the key. Imagine an American high school where three or four girls took off for Milan for shows? It happens in some parts of the Former Soviet Union.
Most people would say that the best looking (if you like the 34-24-34/ 86-61-86 cm at about 5'8"/172 cm look) would come from the Black Sea area of Ukraine. Having been there I would agree. Genetic freaks. Perfect facial bone structure as well. The number of teens who have been part of fashion week in NY, Paris, and now Milan from that area is staggering. Just ask any casting director or photographer. They will tell you. Russia produces some top notch girls as well. Depends on the area though. Kazan is very good. Kaliningrad does well. The Baltic countries (Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia) are producing some great talent. Many top girls are coming from there. Slovakia is pretty good. Montenegro (Balkans) is very solid. Poland and Czech Republic produce some nice girls as well. The Wild Card is Belarus. I haven't been there, but people tell me that if it ever opens up it will become the new Ukraine in terms of modeling.
South America? Only one area that is worth mentioning. Rio Grand Do Sul in Southern Brazil. Immigration from Central and Eastern Europe has made that area of Brazil good.
Travel to some of the places I mentioned. You will become a believer.
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/fashion/article1364996.ece
"At last season’s New York fashion week Calvin Klein, the American designer, did not send a single US model down the catwalk: 12 of his 22 models were from Russia and the former Soviet bloc.
This week a “good half” of the 300 girls on parade in London will be from eastern Europe, according to the Association of Model Agents (AMA).
With their tall, thin bodies, the Slavic-look models are often closer to the “size zero” figures demanded by some designers than their western counterparts."
"Fashion industry insiders warn that the rapid expansion of the “Russian doll” is pushing down modelling fees. In New York last week some girls were not paid at all but were allowed to keep the clothes they modelled."
I know of a number of girls who have done the shows. It sucks. 98% end up making zero dollars! The girl pays for everything. Only a fraction of a percent make money. The ones who do are usually older (around 20) and have been doing shows for more than 5 years. One of the biggest misconceptions is that they have attitudes. Nope. With the arrival of Eastern European girls the attitudes have left the industry. There will always be another Natasha to replace the Natasha already in Italian Vogue. These girls are easily found.
BTW, No hyping your "ethnic" homegirls. That is silly. My "ethnic" homegirls look like something from a horror movie. I wouldn't touch one if she came with a $500 million trust fund.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sparky0000 said:One word - GENETICS!. It is that simple. Some places have it and some don't. The USA DOES NOT HAVE IT. Israel doesn't have it. Western Europe doesn't have it. Turkey, Italy, Spain, etc. do not have it. Genetics is the key. Imagine an American high school where three or four girls took off for Milan for shows? It happens in some parts of the Former Soviet Union.
Most people would say that the best looking (if you like the 34-24-34/ 86-61-86 cm at about 5'8"/172 cm look) would come from the Black Sea area of Ukraine. Having been there I would agree. Genetic freaks. Perfect facial bone structure as well. The number of teens who have been part of fashion week in NY, Paris, and now Milan from that area is staggering. Just ask any casting director or photographer. They will tell you. Russia produces some top notch girls as well. Depends on the area though. Kazan is very good. Kaliningrad does well. The Baltic countries (Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia) are producing some great talent. Many top girls are coming from there. Slovakia is pretty good. Montenegro (Balkans) is very solid. Poland and Czech Republic produce some nice girls as well. The Wild Card is Belarus. I haven't been there, but people tell me that if it ever opens up it will become the new Ukraine in terms of modeling.
South America? Only one area that is worth mentioning. Rio Grand Do Sul in Southern Brazil. Immigration from Central and Eastern Europe has made that area of Brazil good.
Travel to some of the places I mentioned. You will become a believer.
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/fashion/article1364996.ece
"At last season’s New York fashion week Calvin Klein, the American designer, did not send a single US model down the catwalk: 12 of his 22 models were from Russia and the former Soviet bloc.
This week a “good half” of the 300 girls on parade in London will be from eastern Europe, according to the Association of Model Agents (AMA).
With their tall, thin bodies, the Slavic-look models are often closer to the “size zero” figures demanded by some designers than their western counterparts."
"Fashion industry insiders warn that the rapid expansion of the “Russian doll” is pushing down modelling fees. In New York last week some girls were not paid at all but were allowed to keep the clothes they modelled."
I know of a number of girls who have done the shows. It sucks. 98% end up making zero dollars! The girl pays for everything. Only a fraction of a percent make money. The ones who do are usually older (around 20) and have been doing shows for more than 5 years. One of the biggest misconceptions is that they have attitudes. Nope. With the arrival of Eastern European girls the attitudes have left the industry. There will always be another Natasha to replace the Natasha already in Italian Vogue. These girls are easily found.
BTW, No hyping your "ethnic" homegirls. That is silly. My "ethnic" homegirls look like something from a horror movie. I wouldn't touch one if she came with a $500 million trust fund.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
quiet bro, gay russian troll.Babnik said:Absolutely right. Coming from Odessa (city on the Black Sea) I can confirm that. Girls there are gorgeous. I was spoiled by them and here you have really hot ones and 100s of guys going for them. Back there you got a guy per girl! Way less competition!
Nope. I think you still need more game, otherwise you wouldn't care which country has more chicks.Example: Israel has more beautiful woman than a country like morroco. Do you understand what Im getting at?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Add Santa Catarina to that list. And to a lesser degree Paraná.sparky0000 said:South America? Only one area that is worth mentioning. Rio Grand Do Sul in Southern Brazil. Immigration from Central and Eastern Europe has made that area of Brazil good.
Anápolis, in the state of Goiás? Are you insane? There are some beautiful women there, but definitely not worth mentioning.Bevo said:Anapolis is famous for this in Brazil. And check portugal on hi5.com to learn something.
No they are not.Kerpal said:+1
There are hot women and ugly women everywhere, these generalizations are stupid.
Not if you're into blondes...Skel said:Brazil, Spain, Portugal, Puerto Rico, Cuba. You get the point.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.