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Master Don Juan
California...game over. :rockon:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lol, what a load of crap...genetics, wtf? As if one area produces all attractive women and another area all ugly women, LOL.sparky0000 said:One word - GENETICS!. It is that simple. Some places have it and some don't. The USA DOES NOT HAVE IT. Israel doesn't have it. Western Europe doesn't have it. Turkey, Italy, Spain, etc. do not have it. Genetics is the key. Imagine an American high school where three or four girls took off for Milan for shows? It happens in some parts of the Former Soviet Union.
Most people would say that the best looking (if you like the 34-24-34/ 86-61-86 cm at about 5'8"/172 cm look) would come from the Black Sea area of Ukraine. Having been there I would agree. Genetic freaks. Perfect facial bone structure as well. The number of teens who have been part of fashion week in NY, Paris, and now Milan from that area is staggering. Just ask any casting director or photographer. They will tell you. Russia produces some top notch girls as well. Depends on the area though. Kazan is very good. Kaliningrad does well. The Baltic countries (Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia) are producing some great talent. Many top girls are coming from there. Slovakia is pretty good. Montenegro (Balkans) is very solid. Poland and Czech Republic produce some nice girls as well. The Wild Card is Belarus. I haven't been there, but people tell me that if it ever opens up it will become the new Ukraine in terms of modeling.
South America? Only one area that is worth mentioning. Rio Grand Do Sul in Southern Brazil. Immigration from Central and Eastern Europe has made that area of Brazil good.
Travel to some of the places I mentioned. You will become a believer.
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/fashion/article1364996.ece
"At last season’s New York fashion week Calvin Klein, the American designer, did not send a single US model down the catwalk: 12 of his 22 models were from Russia and the former Soviet bloc.
This week a “good half” of the 300 girls on parade in London will be from eastern Europe, according to the Association of Model Agents (AMA).
With their tall, thin bodies, the Slavic-look models are often closer to the “size zero” figures demanded by some designers than their western counterparts."
"Fashion industry insiders warn that the rapid expansion of the “Russian doll” is pushing down modelling fees. In New York last week some girls were not paid at all but were allowed to keep the clothes they modelled."
I know of a number of girls who have done the shows. It sucks. 98% end up making zero dollars! The girl pays for everything. Only a fraction of a percent make money. The ones who do are usually older (around 20) and have been doing shows for more than 5 years. One of the biggest misconceptions is that they have attitudes. Nope. With the arrival of Eastern European girls the attitudes have left the industry. There will always be another Natasha to replace the Natasha already in Italian Vogue. These girls are easily found.
BTW, No hyping your "ethnic" homegirls. That is silly. My "ethnic" homegirls look like something from a horror movie. I wouldn't touch one if she came with a $500 million trust fund.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sparky0000 said:One word - GENETICS!. It is that simple. Some places have it and some don't. The USA DOES NOT HAVE IT. Israel doesn't have it. Western Europe doesn't have it. Turkey, Italy, Spain, etc. do not have it. Genetics is the key. Imagine an American high school where three or four girls took off for Milan for shows? It happens in some parts of the Former Soviet Union.
Most people would say that the best looking (if you like the 34-24-34/ 86-61-86 cm at about 5'8"/172 cm look) would come from the Black Sea area of Ukraine. Having been there I would agree. Genetic freaks. Perfect facial bone structure as well. The number of teens who have been part of fashion week in NY, Paris, and now Milan from that area is staggering. Just ask any casting director or photographer. They will tell you. Russia produces some top notch girls as well. Depends on the area though. Kazan is very good. Kaliningrad does well. The Baltic countries (Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia) are producing some great talent. Many top girls are coming from there. Slovakia is pretty good. Montenegro (Balkans) is very solid. Poland and Czech Republic produce some nice girls as well. The Wild Card is Belarus. I haven't been there, but people tell me that if it ever opens up it will become the new Ukraine in terms of modeling.
South America? Only one area that is worth mentioning. Rio Grand Do Sul in Southern Brazil. Immigration from Central and Eastern Europe has made that area of Brazil good.
Travel to some of the places I mentioned. You will become a believer.
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/fashion/article1364996.ece
"At last season’s New York fashion week Calvin Klein, the American designer, did not send a single US model down the catwalk: 12 of his 22 models were from Russia and the former Soviet bloc.
This week a “good half” of the 300 girls on parade in London will be from eastern Europe, according to the Association of Model Agents (AMA).
With their tall, thin bodies, the Slavic-look models are often closer to the “size zero” figures demanded by some designers than their western counterparts."
"Fashion industry insiders warn that the rapid expansion of the “Russian doll” is pushing down modelling fees. In New York last week some girls were not paid at all but were allowed to keep the clothes they modelled."
I know of a number of girls who have done the shows. It sucks. 98% end up making zero dollars! The girl pays for everything. Only a fraction of a percent make money. The ones who do are usually older (around 20) and have been doing shows for more than 5 years. One of the biggest misconceptions is that they have attitudes. Nope. With the arrival of Eastern European girls the attitudes have left the industry. There will always be another Natasha to replace the Natasha already in Italian Vogue. These girls are easily found.
BTW, No hyping your "ethnic" homegirls. That is silly. My "ethnic" homegirls look like something from a horror movie. I wouldn't touch one if she came with a $500 million trust fund.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
quiet bro, gay russian troll.Babnik said:Absolutely right. Coming from Odessa (city on the Black Sea) I can confirm that. Girls there are gorgeous. I was spoiled by them and here you have really hot ones and 100s of guys going for them. Back there you got a guy per girl! Way less competition!
Nope. I think you still need more game, otherwise you wouldn't care which country has more chicks.Example: Israel has more beautiful woman than a country like morroco. Do you understand what Im getting at?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Add Santa Catarina to that list. And to a lesser degree Paraná.sparky0000 said:South America? Only one area that is worth mentioning. Rio Grand Do Sul in Southern Brazil. Immigration from Central and Eastern Europe has made that area of Brazil good.
Anápolis, in the state of Goiás? Are you insane? There are some beautiful women there, but definitely not worth mentioning.Bevo said:Anapolis is famous for this in Brazil. And check portugal on hi5.com to learn something.
No they are not.Kerpal said:+1
There are hot women and ugly women everywhere, these generalizations are stupid.
Not if you're into blondes...Skel said:Brazil, Spain, Portugal, Puerto Rico, Cuba. You get the point.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.