"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chance

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yeah. GIRLS only care about that crap. real women dont.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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As a white guy there's no way I'm going with anything remotely close to those spiky/anime styles. I keep it short with no product. When it grows a little longer I go with look 16 or 17, but that's it.
 

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J. Darko said:
Haha, come on, don't you think this is kinda gay? :D
All I know is that I want to look my best so that a woman doesn't have to GET OVER my looks in order to realize what she likes about my character/personality. My physique and grooming reflect my self respect, and I expect no less in a woman I end up dating.
 

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TheManOfSteel said:
As a white guy there's no way I'm going with anything remotely close to those spiky/anime styles. I keep it short with no product.
I'm completely with you there. Plus I hated every one of those styles in that video. I used gel for a while and ending that was one of the best fashion decisions I ever made.
 

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chance said:
any guy with long hair in most womens eyes are not a man. it just looks too boyish/feminine. look at bruce willis, would he still look bad ass with hair over his eyes, or down to his chin? just sayin, it's kinda gay when guys put so much effort into their hair. like sometimes i see guys with perfect shiny straight hair combed over their eyes. it disgusts me to see men looking like girls.
Bruce Willis? So you equal badness with baldness? What about this long-haired guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w9tNw-KSzVI&feature=fvwrel (actually it´s short in this video, and he´s out of shape, lol)

It´s more an attitude, skills thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm not digging the use of the gel/pomade or whatever. Not my thing, and also as one poster mentioned, chicks don't dig it.
 

scribblec

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I'm not digging the use of the gel/pomade or whatever. Not my thing, and also as one poster mentioned, chicks don't dig it.
chicks dig hair thats well done up, u wouldnt believe the amount of compliments i get about my hair
 
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