She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
All I know is that I want to look my best so that a woman doesn't have to GET OVER my looks in order to realize what she likes about my character/personality. My physique and grooming reflect my self respect, and I expect no less in a woman I end up dating.J. Darko said:Haha, come on, don't you think this is kinda gay?![]()
I'm completely with you there. Plus I hated every one of those styles in that video. I used gel for a while and ending that was one of the best fashion decisions I ever made.TheManOfSteel said:As a white guy there's no way I'm going with anything remotely close to those spiky/anime styles. I keep it short with no product.
Bruce Willis? So you equal badness with baldness? What about this long-haired guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w9tNw-KSzVI&feature=fvwrel (actually it´s short in this video, and he´s out of shape, lol)chance said:any guy with long hair in most womens eyes are not a man. it just looks too boyish/feminine. look at bruce willis, would he still look bad ass with hair over his eyes, or down to his chin? just sayin, it's kinda gay when guys put so much effort into their hair. like sometimes i see guys with perfect shiny straight hair combed over their eyes. it disgusts me to see men looking like girls.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
chicks dig hair thats well done up, u wouldnt believe the amount of compliments i get about my hairhandle said:I'm not digging the use of the gel/pomade or whatever. Not my thing, and also as one poster mentioned, chicks don't dig it.