"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HOTTEST DATE EVER, but when should I contact her again?

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Hey Slick Rick--
Thanks for the good words and support.
Most everyone else on this forum loves to tear others down or make fun of them for no reason.
I've been coming to this board for almost three years now and have come A LONG way. I've gone from not even touching a girl for almost four years and wanting to die because I felt like such s*** to being able to get a hot girl into my bed in less than three hours--and I've done this a few times now. I used to hate the fact that I was so picky about the women I would actually f***, but now I can actually get those hot types of girls.
I hate the fact that near everyone on this site is so negative and unhelpful. I ADMIT IT-- I still have stupid questions, but asking these stupid questions is what has helped me improve (and continue to improve) and I'm thankful for all the people who have been helpful and supportive to me over the years.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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