"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HotorNot scores a little off

HotorNot works?

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  • The sh.t is flawed

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r0cky

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Ok so I put my pic on HotorNot and my score is a 9.3. What the hell! if I'm a 9.3 then I must be right there with Brad Pitt. What do you guys think is HotorNot truthfull and I'm totally blind to my own beauty and sexiness, or is the HotorNot rating system flawed and I'm an ugly bastard?
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EUGURMG&key=LRX
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warrior74

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depends on the people voting on you. I'm a solid 7.5 I think its pretty much about right.
 

Furyguy

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Can't say for the men, but for the women that site is seriously flawed. There are some nasty ass b*tches on there but I have yet to see any girl below a 5.5. Girls that are in the Average to Cute spectrum (5, 6, 7) are routinely getting 9's and 10's. Girls that are just downright ugly are 5's and 6's. I admittedly have very low standards, too. I usually find girls to be much more attractive than what my friends think.

Something is skewing the results upwards. It could be designed that way so people feel better about themselves. This creates enjoyment from being rated higher than they perceive themselves, and thus draw more traffic to the site through word of mouth and so forth. If I were an 8.5 I'd be much more likely to drop my link to somebody than if I were a 4.
 

DJVladdy

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great facial structure.

9 or no 9, you are well above average in looks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LoneSilver

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If you knew every woman that voted for you were homely ugly women missing teeth and had fat bellies would your high score still give you an ego boost? Do you know what the women look like who gave you any vote?

If you knew all the votes were from hot attractive women then you'll have a reason to think your really hot goes for the women too..If the women were getting votes for hot from fat old men balding with no teeth would these women still feel attractive and hot if they knew this? I doubt it so it's a failed system. Also whose to say men are not voting on men like gay men showing up voting...Something to think about.

So bottom line is unless you see first hand who it is voting for you the only recoarse is to just find your ownself attractive.

Make sense?

LoneSilver
 

HandyAndy

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Idk about you guys, but when I wanna fvck with someones score, I rate it a 1 not a 9, unless someone wants to fvck with your score and make it higher, which defeats the purpose of fvcking with your score, its probably true...your not ugly if your not brad pitt....
 

r0cky

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LoneSilver said:
If you knew every woman that voted for you were homely ugly women missing teeth and had fat bellies would your high score still give you an ego boost? Do you know what the women look like who gave you any vote?

If you knew all the votes were from hot attractive women then you'll have a reason to think your really hot goes for the women too..If the women were getting votes for hot from fat old men balding with no teeth would these women still feel attractive and hot if they knew this? I doubt it so it's a failed system. Also whose to say men are not voting on men like gay men showing up voting...Something to think about.

So bottom line is unless you see first hand who it is voting for you the only recoarse is to just find your ownself attractive.

Make sense?

LoneSilver
Thats true but I've seen plenty of hotties in there. I'd say about 50% of the girls are hb8s or better
 

TheVirtualMind

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r0cky said:
Thats true but I've seen plenty of hotties in there. I'd say about 50% of the girls are hb8s or better
While the other 50% look like troll dolls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheGameMaster

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i went on there and got 9.9. seriously and i am kinda handsome but not VERY.
dude, you are good looking enough to pull any girl with tight game, but you are not 9.3 i think only models are really men like that are very rare.
 

LoneSilver

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Thats cool but just for the record now I'm not saying your anywhere ugly you got that look I believe girls like but it's up to them to decide not us men if you know what I mean:D

LoneSilver

r0cky said:
Thats true but I've seen plenty of hotties in there. I'd say about 50% of the girls are hb8s or better
 
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