"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HotorNot scores a little off

HotorNot works?

  • Works

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • The sh.t is flawed

    Votes: 12 100.0%

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r0cky

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Ok so I put my pic on HotorNot and my score is a 9.3. What the hell! if I'm a 9.3 then I must be right there with Brad Pitt. What do you guys think is HotorNot truthfull and I'm totally blind to my own beauty and sexiness, or is the HotorNot rating system flawed and I'm an ugly bastard?
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EUGURMG&key=LRX
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Warrior74

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depends on the people voting on you. I'm a solid 7.5 I think its pretty much about right.
 

Furyguy

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Can't say for the men, but for the women that site is seriously flawed. There are some nasty ass b*tches on there but I have yet to see any girl below a 5.5. Girls that are in the Average to Cute spectrum (5, 6, 7) are routinely getting 9's and 10's. Girls that are just downright ugly are 5's and 6's. I admittedly have very low standards, too. I usually find girls to be much more attractive than what my friends think.

Something is skewing the results upwards. It could be designed that way so people feel better about themselves. This creates enjoyment from being rated higher than they perceive themselves, and thus draw more traffic to the site through word of mouth and so forth. If I were an 8.5 I'd be much more likely to drop my link to somebody than if I were a 4.
 

DJVladdy

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great facial structure.

9 or no 9, you are well above average in looks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LoneSilver

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If you knew every woman that voted for you were homely ugly women missing teeth and had fat bellies would your high score still give you an ego boost? Do you know what the women look like who gave you any vote?

If you knew all the votes were from hot attractive women then you'll have a reason to think your really hot goes for the women too..If the women were getting votes for hot from fat old men balding with no teeth would these women still feel attractive and hot if they knew this? I doubt it so it's a failed system. Also whose to say men are not voting on men like gay men showing up voting...Something to think about.

So bottom line is unless you see first hand who it is voting for you the only recoarse is to just find your ownself attractive.

Make sense?

LoneSilver
 

HandyAndy

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Idk about you guys, but when I wanna fvck with someones score, I rate it a 1 not a 9, unless someone wants to fvck with your score and make it higher, which defeats the purpose of fvcking with your score, its probably true...your not ugly if your not brad pitt....
 

r0cky

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LoneSilver said:
If you knew every woman that voted for you were homely ugly women missing teeth and had fat bellies would your high score still give you an ego boost? Do you know what the women look like who gave you any vote?

If you knew all the votes were from hot attractive women then you'll have a reason to think your really hot goes for the women too..If the women were getting votes for hot from fat old men balding with no teeth would these women still feel attractive and hot if they knew this? I doubt it so it's a failed system. Also whose to say men are not voting on men like gay men showing up voting...Something to think about.

So bottom line is unless you see first hand who it is voting for you the only recoarse is to just find your ownself attractive.

Make sense?

LoneSilver
Thats true but I've seen plenty of hotties in there. I'd say about 50% of the girls are hb8s or better
 

TheVirtualMind

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r0cky said:
Thats true but I've seen plenty of hotties in there. I'd say about 50% of the girls are hb8s or better
While the other 50% look like troll dolls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheGameMaster

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i went on there and got 9.9. seriously and i am kinda handsome but not VERY.
dude, you are good looking enough to pull any girl with tight game, but you are not 9.3 i think only models are really men like that are very rare.
 

LoneSilver

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Thats cool but just for the record now I'm not saying your anywhere ugly you got that look I believe girls like but it's up to them to decide not us men if you know what I mean:D

LoneSilver

r0cky said:
Thats true but I've seen plenty of hotties in there. I'd say about 50% of the girls are hb8s or better
 
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