“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Obsidian

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Has anyone here had much success with hotornot? I can barely get any double matches on that damn website. If anyone on here has some good tips on how to make a good hotornot profile, I'd be curious to know what I'm doing wrong. (Or if no one has much success with it, I'll just assume that girls online really are just attention wh0res like I figured...)

And no, I'm not overly concerned about this...I realize that online dating is kinda dumb anyway. It just seems like some people oughta be hooking up from these services 'cause otherwise they wouldn't still exist.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obsidian

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well irl, i think i'm pretty hot. Over the freakin' internet i'm not so sure.
 

GtarPlayr73

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I have above average looks and my current photo is averaging mid-7's, so i guess that's...above average. I need to post a pic with better lighting and definition. Some rated me a 1 or a 2 which is just rediculous. Only man-haters would do such a thing.

Overall, i don't take it too seriously. Would like to meet chicks on it, but don't expect much at all, seeing that women are often satisfied just knowing they're hot rather than doing anything more about it...which pisses me off. If all they want is attention, why don't they just sit in a window, get men to ogle them (read: give them validation) and then drop the curtains and go on with their lives, smugly satisfied that they're still "hot".
 

aussiegoat55

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Yeah, I've had success. Even met a great chick in person and we're still dating.

I've gotten a several double matches and half matches (from real gorgeous women and average) but like you said, online dating is kind of dumb so I deleted all my double matches and am going to close my account. All I wanted to know is if I was relativley good looking because it's not fair to judge yourself, you're either too generous or too hard on yourself. Now I don't care about it, I don't need to be labeled a number, or I don't need validation. Back to the main point...

The big problem is keeping them interested. Some will just out of the blue stop replying to your messages, this is quite frequent. Most will not agree to meet in public.

For your personal profile. Look at what everyone else has. "I like to travel, party, workout, uh, I like music." It's all the same! So be original. Don't conform to the boring personal intro shyt like career, major in college, age, workout.

Great example of what not to do (Dead beat):

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=OYBUASO

Unoriginal (Where he's from, what he enjoys doing, going out with friends, his age):

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=OLN8OYB

Someone more original (Read his intro):

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=NYALOUG

Original (Original intro, even uses personal characteristics in keywords):

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=GEEYAQH

Also you can try to post a real picture of hot guys or hot girls as yourself, hehe, and see what results you get. If you post a hot pic of a girl, then you'll get messages from tons of guys. See what the majority of them say or do, take that into account, and be original from there. Seperate yourself from them, that's what this website is about.

If you post yourself as a hot guy, see if you get more half matches from girls lined up to "Meet You".

I wouldn't give it too much significance, that website. Hope that helped.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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