"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jcjetty

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Gentlemen,

I've got a very attractive young lady coming to my house tomorrow for a guitar lesson.

Originally I contacted her on a local Facebook page because she was looking for guitar lessons. The banter was light and flirty from the beginning.

When I asked when she wanted to start she commented that Sunday she had off but Tuesday would work too. She missed her sunday appointment. It all seemed a little odd. But today she was quick to point out she will be free tomorrow, Valentine's day. I commented All right I get to spend at least a little bit of time on Valentine's day with a pretty girl! Your on... Noon time good? She said Perfect lol I forgot tomorrow was valentines day!

It's sounding to me like she wants to be with me that day so I threw this out I've got to go. I'm checking out a new drummer. Just be aware you stand me up again you will have to be punished bonne jour ma cheri her reply was lol take care.

What your thoughts? Am I picking this up right if so how should I proceed. It seems to me she is very hungry for attention
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude99

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Gentlemen,

I've got a very attractive young lady coming to my house tomorrow for a guitar lesson.

Originally I contacted her on a local Facebook page because she was looking for guitar lessons. The banter was light and flirty from the beginning.

When I asked when she wanted to start she commented that Sunday she had off but Tuesday would work too. She missed her sunday appointment. It all seemed a little odd. But today she was quick to point out she will be free tomorrow, Valentine's day. I commented All right I get to spend at least a little bit of time on Valentine's day with a pretty girl! Your on... Noon time good? She said Perfect lol I forgot tomorrow was valentines day!

It's sounding to me like she wants to be with me that day so I threw this out I've got to go. I'm checking out a new drummer. Just be aware you stand me up again you will have to be punished bonne jour ma cheri her reply was lol take care.

What your thoughts? Am I picking this up right if so how should I proceed. It seems to me she is very hungry for attention
Tred lightly. Guitar lessons may be all she wants. Her giggle and ok answers don't seem all too flirty. Your early compliments may give the impression you are too thirsty and this will drive her interest down. Unless you can give her the illusion you are like this with all your students.

Let her come to your lessons and leave the flirting up to her to gauge her interest.
 

jcjetty

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Tred lightly. Guitar lessons may be all she wants. Her giggle and ok answers don't seem all too flirty. Your early compliments may give the impression you are too thirsty and this will drive her interest down. Unless you can give her the illusion you are like this with all your students.

Let her come to your lessons and leave the flirting up to her to gauge her interest.
Became a non issue when she no called no showed. I dropped her. My time is valuable however you are right. Obviously I don't flirt with all my students. But she friended me on Facebook and I clearly flirt a lot. Part of the hype.
 

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drill it and figure her out later dude.
 
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