"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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jcjetty

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Gentlemen,

I've got a very attractive young lady coming to my house tomorrow for a guitar lesson.

Originally I contacted her on a local Facebook page because she was looking for guitar lessons. The banter was light and flirty from the beginning.

When I asked when she wanted to start she commented that Sunday she had off but Tuesday would work too. She missed her sunday appointment. It all seemed a little odd. But today she was quick to point out she will be free tomorrow, Valentine's day. I commented All right I get to spend at least a little bit of time on Valentine's day with a pretty girl! Your on... Noon time good? She said Perfect lol I forgot tomorrow was valentines day!

It's sounding to me like she wants to be with me that day so I threw this out I've got to go. I'm checking out a new drummer. Just be aware you stand me up again you will have to be punished bonne jour ma cheri her reply was lol take care.

What your thoughts? Am I picking this up right if so how should I proceed. It seems to me she is very hungry for attention
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dude99

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Gentlemen,

I've got a very attractive young lady coming to my house tomorrow for a guitar lesson.

Originally I contacted her on a local Facebook page because she was looking for guitar lessons. The banter was light and flirty from the beginning.

When I asked when she wanted to start she commented that Sunday she had off but Tuesday would work too. She missed her sunday appointment. It all seemed a little odd. But today she was quick to point out she will be free tomorrow, Valentine's day. I commented All right I get to spend at least a little bit of time on Valentine's day with a pretty girl! Your on... Noon time good? She said Perfect lol I forgot tomorrow was valentines day!

It's sounding to me like she wants to be with me that day so I threw this out I've got to go. I'm checking out a new drummer. Just be aware you stand me up again you will have to be punished bonne jour ma cheri her reply was lol take care.

What your thoughts? Am I picking this up right if so how should I proceed. It seems to me she is very hungry for attention
Tred lightly. Guitar lessons may be all she wants. Her giggle and ok answers don't seem all too flirty. Your early compliments may give the impression you are too thirsty and this will drive her interest down. Unless you can give her the illusion you are like this with all your students.

Let her come to your lessons and leave the flirting up to her to gauge her interest.
 

jcjetty

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Tred lightly. Guitar lessons may be all she wants. Her giggle and ok answers don't seem all too flirty. Your early compliments may give the impression you are too thirsty and this will drive her interest down. Unless you can give her the illusion you are like this with all your students.

Let her come to your lessons and leave the flirting up to her to gauge her interest.
Became a non issue when she no called no showed. I dropped her. My time is valuable however you are right. Obviously I don't flirt with all my students. But she friended me on Facebook and I clearly flirt a lot. Part of the hype.
 

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drill it and figure her out later dude.
 
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