Hot women who are nice...

[SoCalMike]

Ever notice how hot girls become much nicer when they're single moms and no one wants them anymore?

It's really just fake behaviour IMO. Designed to lure someone into taking care of them and cleaning up their mess.

This brings up an interesting question in my mind: is there ever really such a thing as genuinely nice behaviour from an attractive woman, or is all her behaviour just motivated by what she can get?

Thoughts?

 

[Trader]

This brings up an interesting question in my mind: is there ever really such a thing as genuinely nice behaviour from an attractive woman, or is all her behaviour just motivated by what she can get?

Thoughts?

Of course beautiful girls will be nice to you, IF you are a high value male.

Unfortunately, beautiful girls *can* be mean or arrogant towards you, if you are a low value male, or if your value drops preciptiously.

 

[SoCalMike]

Of course beautiful girls will be nice to you, IF you are a high value male.

Unfortunately, beautiful girls *can* be mean or arrogant towards you, if you are a low value male, or if your value drops preciptiously.

I'm not talking about hot women rejecting me, although I figured that would be the response. I'm talking about my experiences DATING hot women. Most are arrogant selfish cvnts with an entitlement complex. Only when I threaten to dump them do they act *somewhat* decent.

The only exceptions to this rule have been 2 foreign women I dated, so maybe it's an American thing.

 

[Kailex]

Ever notice how hot girls become much nicer when they're single moms and no one wants them anymore?

It's really just fake behaviour IMO. Designed to lure someone into taking care of them and cleaning up their mess.

Thoughts?

You've already said everything that needs to be said about the topic. Of course they're much nicer when they are single moms, they're looking for providers to take care of them. They're looking to rectify their past mistakes. Curiously enough, most of these women are the same that at some point in their lives have told at least SOMEONE: I don't need a man in my life to raise my child(ren).

Most of the people in this forum will stop at being FB's with a single woman. I'd never consider a serious relationship with a single mom because of all the additional baggage they have on them. It's hard enough to game women when they're single and childless... why add any extra ingredients into the already complicated recipe?

 

[SoCalMike]

You've already said everything that needs to be said about the topic. Of course they're much nicer when they are single moms, they're looking for providers to take care of them. They're looking to rectify their past mistakes. Curiously enough, most of these women are the same that at some point in their lives have told at least SOMEONE: I don't need a man in my life to raise my child(ren).

Most of the people in this forum will stop at being FB's with a single woman. I'd never consider a serious relationship with a single mom because of all the additional baggage they have on them. It's hard enough to game women when they're single and childless... why add any extra ingredients into the already complicated recipe?

I understand that. But it's a philisophical question: is there such a thing as a hot woman who is GENUINELY nice, or does that behaviour only come out when they need something?

In my experience the answer is the latter in about 99.99% of cases, at least when we're discussing AMERICAN WHITE women.

 

[jophil28]

I understand that. But it's a philisophical question: is there such a thing as a hot woman who is GENUINELY nice,

Yes - they are out there. I have known two maybe three.
And all of them had strong, manly 'old school' fathers who were the dominant parent.
Not sure of all the psych intricacies there, BUT women with fathers like Clint are the ones you want.

 

[CuriousGirl]

They definitely exist. I'm nice, hot and modest.

 

[yuppaz]

lol I'm super hot and modest...hahahahaha... But she's right. They do exist, a lot of them get nervous around guys they feel are HOT. At the end of the day they are just human like you and I. If angry fat bpd slobs came up to you all the time and stupidly tried hitting on you, do you think you may get tired of it and maybe occasionally lash out at them? That's where the ***** stereotype comes in. p.s. Curious Girl, check me out if you ever vaca in Hawaii baby girl....hahahahaha

 

[jafyk]

They definitely exist. I'm nice, hot and modest.

No your not nice. I just read one of your posts where you give guys facebook to reject them later. If you were nice you wouldn't give them false hope.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Jophil,
"I have known two maybe three.
And all of them had strong, manly 'old school' fathers who were the dominant parent".....dead right Jophil,never thought of it before,but that is my experience too.....Begs a question,are they really looking for someone like Dad?

 

[sodbuster]

Most of those are married. Someone WILL snap them up and try to keep them.

 

[women haze]

The Nice Beautiful girls I have known are Married or taken..mainly at my job. I vibed with a beautiful girl, but she was married...

they are out there fellas...just taken, again I reitterrate TAKEN!

 

[SoCalMike]

lol I'm super hot and modest...

If angry fat bpd slobs came up to you all the time and stupidly tried hitting on you, do you think you may get tired of it and maybe occasionally lash out at them?

You're not modest or "nice". Nor am I talking about lashing out at fat slobs who hit on you (although that's a good example - why the need to lash out?). I'm talking about overall personality traits... selfishness, entitlement, etc.

 

[SoCalMike]

They definitely exist. I'm nice, hot and modest.

And you hang around so suave? I guess it's possible...

 

[SoCalMike]

Yes - they are out there. I have known two maybe three.
And all of them had strong, manly 'old school' fathers who were the dominant parent.
Not sure of all the psych intricacies there, BUT women with fathers like Clint are the ones you want.

Yeah that's probalby true. The two foreign women I dated who were hot and actually decent people came from good families. Sometimes I regret not marrying one of them. I was younger and not ready to settle down though.

 

[SoCalMike]

Most of those are married. Someone WILL snap them up and try to keep them.

Good point. I think this is true as well.

 

[CrashOverRide]

I honestly wouldn't single out attractive women.... I think there are copious people who aren't genuine both male and female alike. But to answer your question... yes I have met attractive women who were genuinely nice... I know it was genuine because there was really nothing I could provide them (i.g. they had a higher position in the workplace)