escaleraroyal
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hot women easier? is it true?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
hot women easier?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
donnyjondeppjuando
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I heard hot women dotn get approached as much asescaleraroyal said:
1. Many guys are intimated
2. Many guys want quick easy sex so go for fat chicks or less hot girls.
However, being hot they are still gonna want decent quality/looking guys.
Nah. They have higher standards. It may very well be true that few guys approach them because of intimidation, but that doesn't make them any easier. The basic rules still apply....the better looking the girl, the more conceited and narcissistic she is (exceptions exist of course). Now, you can either accept that or keep deluding yourselves into thinking hot women are somehow easier than average women. Does that even sound right?
I think the whole reason that "theory" was brought up was based on the assumption that hot women get approached less. They feel that since they are approached less often, they don't have their guard up as much, making them easier to approach. At that point, if you have good enough game, you have a decent shot.
I personally don't agree with it. I think there is a lot of truth to what TIC said about better looking girls being more conceited and having higher standards. Just because she may be easier to approach than one would think, doesn't necessarily mean she's easier to close.
That being said, there is no reason to not try. Approach a hot woman like you would any other woman. Have your sh!t test game on point, and just go for it.
I personally don't agree with it. I think there is a lot of truth to what TIC said about better looking girls being more conceited and having higher standards. Just because she may be easier to approach than one would think, doesn't necessarily mean she's easier to close.
That being said, there is no reason to not try. Approach a hot woman like you would any other woman. Have your sh!t test game on point, and just go for it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Judge nismo is on the case! Order in the court!escaleraroyal said:
Hot women are not easier. I hear they don't get approached as much. Total bullsh*t. Have you been to a sausagefest? Hot girls get approached all the time! Most of this "Hot girls don't get approached as much" sh*t comes from PUA gurus trying to sell some reworded, rehashed sh*t.
Hot girls still have to give you a chance. Approaching them is one thing, but they have to allow you to work your magic. And you STILL HAVE TO GET HER! Rejecting her won't hurt her at all. She can go up in her iphone and call one of the other 100 chumps who gave their number to her.
For most men who are going for these hot girls, it's a matter of luck. These women are not easier to close, as they have much higher standards. It's kind of like getting into Harvard Medical School. They accept only the top applicants. Same principle here. You may run into an exceptions, but they're few and far in between.
Case closed. Good luck.
Scars
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I completely agree with nismo. Hott girls get approached all the time. If you've ever dated a girl that was a 9 or higher (if there truly is such thing as a 10) you would know this. It's almost a conflict anywhere you go. Guys will try and do it even right in front of you. Add alcohol into the equation and it's even worse. Suddenly you have pvssie boys with liquid courage. And even if they aren't being physically approached. They are constantly having male attention, by the fact that every guy is starring at her. You may think she didn't notice you checking her out.. she knows. And guys who sit around and gawk too long only decrease their chances even further by waiting.
You really want to bag a hottie?
Don't hesitate.
And even then it's a gamble. You're going to have to have good looks, power, money, or something else of high value to offer her. These are the types of girls that will REALLY test you. Their standards of men are a lot higher than the average Jane.
Are hott woman easier? Anything but.
-Scars
You really want to bag a hottie?
Don't hesitate.
And even then it's a gamble. You're going to have to have good looks, power, money, or something else of high value to offer her. These are the types of girls that will REALLY test you. Their standards of men are a lot higher than the average Jane.
Are hott woman easier? Anything but.
-Scars
I know this applies for ages 12-22 but does it still apply when you're in your mid to late twenties & beyond? Isn't that the point where the used up hotties end up with mediocre looking dudes who have benefits(cough cough cash)?st_99 said:
PapiChulo
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Good- looking doesn't cut it - read it as "hot, jacked, with abs, and $1000 smile".
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yes I agree with this. After being out in the field for a while, I must say that muscles and a 6-pack are actually better than being handsome. You'll get laid way more if your face is meh but your jacked. Even if your short, getting built will improve your pool of women dramatically.PapiChulo said:
5string
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Agree with nismo that hotties get approached more. But, I am of the opinion that they actually are easier to get. Never had a problem getting the really hot women.
Maybe it really does boil down to self confidence after all.
Maybe it really does boil down to self confidence after all.
zekko
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This is one of those things that varies from girl to girl.
But there is a phenomenon where hotter girls can be easier. I agree that it is BS that hot girls don't get approached because they're intimidating. All the hot girls I've known get approached, and they get approached a lot.
Many of these women enjoy this attention, and they grow accustomed to it. They are also very used to being around guys, and are very comfortable with them.
So a lot of hot girls can be more receptive to guys, just because they are used to having positive, validating experiences with them. They may think "Oh look, another male to adore me".
I suppose you mean "easier" as in an easier lay though, and again, that can vary. But a lot of hot girls get very comfortable with their sexuality and may be more receptive than their less attractive counterparts.
But there is a phenomenon where hotter girls can be easier. I agree that it is BS that hot girls don't get approached because they're intimidating. All the hot girls I've known get approached, and they get approached a lot.
Many of these women enjoy this attention, and they grow accustomed to it. They are also very used to being around guys, and are very comfortable with them.
So a lot of hot girls can be more receptive to guys, just because they are used to having positive, validating experiences with them. They may think "Oh look, another male to adore me".
I suppose you mean "easier" as in an easier lay though, and again, that can vary. But a lot of hot girls get very comfortable with their sexuality and may be more receptive than their less attractive counterparts.
This is the absolute truth. I dated an HB9 for awhile and it was absolutely astonishing the amount of male attention she received wherever she went. Absolutely astonishing.Scars said:
donnyjondeppjuando
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right..........hot women only chose guys with big ****s
why settle for less when you can be choosy!!
Though looks matter I think hot chicks wnat well endowed guys?
Well that aint a probelm for me yalll eyh yeh eyh
why settle for less when you can be choosy!!
Though looks matter I think hot chicks wnat well endowed guys?
Well that aint a probelm for me yalll eyh yeh eyh
In2theGame
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LOLKerpal said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Define hot.
that's what your subliminal response has to be in your head, or you will never get one
its not hot or not
its "do i like her or not?"
if you care if your friends/coworokers/someone in the street think she is hot you will have a problem
just be with her, defend your choice if you have to, but tell everyone to live their own lives if they cant stay out of yours.
In my experience girls who were taking my breath away always had a guy or bunch of guys ready to come when she calls, doesn't mean you have to let that worry you - its about where you stand.
I wouldn't make her cheat if she loves her bf.. but if she is down and he never finds out and I DONT KNOW HIM I can do it
If i know a guy and think he is cool, I'll probably stay away unless I really like her
that's what your subliminal response has to be in your head, or you will never get one
its not hot or not
its "do i like her or not?"
if you care if your friends/coworokers/someone in the street think she is hot you will have a problem
just be with her, defend your choice if you have to, but tell everyone to live their own lives if they cant stay out of yours.
In my experience girls who were taking my breath away always had a guy or bunch of guys ready to come when she calls, doesn't mean you have to let that worry you - its about where you stand.
I wouldn't make her cheat if she loves her bf.. but if she is down and he never finds out and I DONT KNOW HIM I can do it
If i know a guy and think he is cool, I'll probably stay away unless I really like her