escaleraroyal
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hot women easier? is it true?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I heard hot women dotn get approached as much asescaleraroyal said:hot women easier? is it true?
Yes of course, its still good practice and you never know if you run into an exceptionPDubb75 said:That being said, there is no reason to not try. Approach a hot woman like you would any other woman. Have your sh!t test game on point, and just go for it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Judge nismo is on the case! Order in the court!escaleraroyal said:hot women easier? is it true?
I know this applies for ages 12-22 but does it still apply when you're in your mid to late twenties & beyond? Isn't that the point where the used up hotties end up with mediocre looking dudes who have benefits(cough cough cash)?st_99 said:This might sound crazy but I think if you're a good looking guy (define that as you may) you'll have an easier time pulling hot girls over average girls.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes I agree with this. After being out in the field for a while, I must say that muscles and a 6-pack are actually better than being handsome. You'll get laid way more if your face is meh but your jacked. Even if your short, getting built will improve your pool of women dramatically.PapiChulo said:Good- looking doesn't cut it - read it as "hot, jacked, with abs, and $1000 smile".
This is the absolute truth. I dated an HB9 for awhile and it was absolutely astonishing the amount of male attention she received wherever she went. Absolutely astonishing.Scars said:I completely agree with nismo. Hott girls get approached all the time. If you've ever dated a girl that was a 9 or higher (if there truly is such thing as a 10) you would know this. It's almost a conflict anywhere you go. Guys will try and do it even right in front of you. Add alcohol into the equation and it's even worse. Suddenly you have pvssie boys with liquid courage. And even if they aren't being physically approached. They are constantly having male attention, by the fact that every guy is starring at her.
LOLKerpal said:I see it every time I leave the house. Hot women basically have ****s flying at them all day, every day..
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.