escaleraroyal
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hot women easier? is it true?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I heard hot women dotn get approached as much asescaleraroyal said:hot women easier? is it true?
Yes of course, its still good practice and you never know if you run into an exceptionPDubb75 said:That being said, there is no reason to not try. Approach a hot woman like you would any other woman. Have your sh!t test game on point, and just go for it.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Judge nismo is on the case! Order in the court!escaleraroyal said:hot women easier? is it true?
I know this applies for ages 12-22 but does it still apply when you're in your mid to late twenties & beyond? Isn't that the point where the used up hotties end up with mediocre looking dudes who have benefits(cough cough cash)?st_99 said:This might sound crazy but I think if you're a good looking guy (define that as you may) you'll have an easier time pulling hot girls over average girls.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes I agree with this. After being out in the field for a while, I must say that muscles and a 6-pack are actually better than being handsome. You'll get laid way more if your face is meh but your jacked. Even if your short, getting built will improve your pool of women dramatically.PapiChulo said:Good- looking doesn't cut it - read it as "hot, jacked, with abs, and $1000 smile".
This is the absolute truth. I dated an HB9 for awhile and it was absolutely astonishing the amount of male attention she received wherever she went. Absolutely astonishing.Scars said:I completely agree with nismo. Hott girls get approached all the time. If you've ever dated a girl that was a 9 or higher (if there truly is such thing as a 10) you would know this. It's almost a conflict anywhere you go. Guys will try and do it even right in front of you. Add alcohol into the equation and it's even worse. Suddenly you have pvssie boys with liquid courage. And even if they aren't being physically approached. They are constantly having male attention, by the fact that every guy is starring at her.
LOLKerpal said:I see it every time I leave the house. Hot women basically have ****s flying at them all day, every day..
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.