"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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escaleraroyal said:
hot women easier? is it true?
I heard hot women dotn get approached as much as

1. Many guys are intimated

2. Many guys want quick easy sex so go for fat chicks or less hot girls.


However, being hot they are still gonna want decent quality/looking guys.
 

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Nah. They have higher standards. It may very well be true that few guys approach them because of intimidation, but that doesn't make them any easier. The basic rules still apply....the better looking the girl, the more conceited and narcissistic she is (exceptions exist of course). Now, you can either accept that or keep deluding yourselves into thinking hot women are somehow easier than average women. Does that even sound right?
 

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I think the whole reason that "theory" was brought up was based on the assumption that hot women get approached less. They feel that since they are approached less often, they don't have their guard up as much, making them easier to approach. At that point, if you have good enough game, you have a decent shot.

I personally don't agree with it. I think there is a lot of truth to what TIC said about better looking girls being more conceited and having higher standards. Just because she may be easier to approach than one would think, doesn't necessarily mean she's easier to close.

That being said, there is no reason to not try. Approach a hot woman like you would any other woman. Have your sh!t test game on point, and just go for it.
 

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PDubb75 said:
That being said, there is no reason to not try. Approach a hot woman like you would any other woman. Have your sh!t test game on point, and just go for it.
Yes of course, its still good practice and you never know if you run into an exception
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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escaleraroyal said:
hot women easier? is it true?
Judge nismo is on the case! Order in the court!

Hot women are not easier. I hear they don't get approached as much. Total bullsh*t. Have you been to a sausagefest? Hot girls get approached all the time! Most of this "Hot girls don't get approached as much" sh*t comes from PUA gurus trying to sell some reworded, rehashed sh*t.

Hot girls still have to give you a chance. Approaching them is one thing, but they have to allow you to work your magic. And you STILL HAVE TO GET HER! Rejecting her won't hurt her at all. She can go up in her iphone and call one of the other 100 chumps who gave their number to her.

For most men who are going for these hot girls, it's a matter of luck. These women are not easier to close, as they have much higher standards. It's kind of like getting into Harvard Medical School. They accept only the top applicants. Same principle here. You may run into an exceptions, but they're few and far in between.

Case closed. Good luck.
 

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I completely agree with nismo. Hott girls get approached all the time. If you've ever dated a girl that was a 9 or higher (if there truly is such thing as a 10) you would know this. It's almost a conflict anywhere you go. Guys will try and do it even right in front of you. Add alcohol into the equation and it's even worse. Suddenly you have pvssie boys with liquid courage. And even if they aren't being physically approached. They are constantly having male attention, by the fact that every guy is starring at her. You may think she didn't notice you checking her out.. she knows. And guys who sit around and gawk too long only decrease their chances even further by waiting.

You really want to bag a hottie?

Don't hesitate.

And even then it's a gamble. You're going to have to have good looks, power, money, or something else of high value to offer her. These are the types of girls that will REALLY test you. Their standards of men are a lot higher than the average Jane.

Are hott woman easier? Anything but.

-Scars
 

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This might sound crazy but I think if you're a good looking guy (define that as you may) you'll have an easier time pulling hot girls over average girls.
 

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st_99 said:
This might sound crazy but I think if you're a good looking guy (define that as you may) you'll have an easier time pulling hot girls over average girls.
I know this applies for ages 12-22 but does it still apply when you're in your mid to late twenties & beyond? Isn't that the point where the used up hotties end up with mediocre looking dudes who have benefits(cough cough cash)?
 

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Good- looking doesn't cut it - read it as "hot, jacked, with abs, and $1000 smile".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PapiChulo said:
Good- looking doesn't cut it - read it as "hot, jacked, with abs, and $1000 smile".
Yes I agree with this. After being out in the field for a while, I must say that muscles and a 6-pack are actually better than being handsome. You'll get laid way more if your face is meh but your jacked. Even if your short, getting built will improve your pool of women dramatically.
 

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Agree with nismo that hotties get approached more. But, I am of the opinion that they actually are easier to get. Never had a problem getting the really hot women.

Maybe it really does boil down to self confidence after all.
 

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This is one of those things that varies from girl to girl.
But there is a phenomenon where hotter girls can be easier. I agree that it is BS that hot girls don't get approached because they're intimidating. All the hot girls I've known get approached, and they get approached a lot.
Many of these women enjoy this attention, and they grow accustomed to it. They are also very used to being around guys, and are very comfortable with them.

So a lot of hot girls can be more receptive to guys, just because they are used to having positive, validating experiences with them. They may think "Oh look, another male to adore me".

I suppose you mean "easier" as in an easier lay though, and again, that can vary. But a lot of hot girls get very comfortable with their sexuality and may be more receptive than their less attractive counterparts.



Scars said:
I completely agree with nismo. Hott girls get approached all the time. If you've ever dated a girl that was a 9 or higher (if there truly is such thing as a 10) you would know this. It's almost a conflict anywhere you go. Guys will try and do it even right in front of you. Add alcohol into the equation and it's even worse. Suddenly you have pvssie boys with liquid courage. And even if they aren't being physically approached. They are constantly having male attention, by the fact that every guy is starring at her.
This is the absolute truth. I dated an HB9 for awhile and it was absolutely astonishing the amount of male attention she received wherever she went. Absolutely astonishing.
 
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right..........hot women only chose guys with big ****s

why settle for less when you can be choosy!!

Though looks matter I think hot chicks wnat well endowed guys?

Well that aint a probelm for me yalll eyh yeh eyh :);) :) :)
 

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Kerpal said:
I see it every time I leave the house. Hot women basically have ****s flying at them all day, every day..
LOL
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Define hot.



that's what your subliminal response has to be in your head, or you will never get one


its not hot or not

its "do i like her or not?"



if you care if your friends/coworokers/someone in the street think she is hot you will have a problem


just be with her, defend your choice if you have to, but tell everyone to live their own lives if they cant stay out of yours.


In my experience girls who were taking my breath away always had a guy or bunch of guys ready to come when she calls, doesn't mean you have to let that worry you - its about where you stand.

I wouldn't make her cheat if she loves her bf.. but if she is down and he never finds out and I DONT KNOW HIM I can do it

If i know a guy and think he is cool, I'll probably stay away unless I really like her
 
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