"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hot woman gave me her number

Stavrogin

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I recently summoned up the courage to approach a woman (a total hottie) I have seen around at the office but don't know. As an excuse to approach her, I asked her for advice about something. Within a couple of minutes, she gave me her cell phone number (unsolicited) but continued to give advice for quite a while until I was forced to excuse myself. In other words, I don't think she gave me her number just to get me out of her hair. She spoke almost the entire time and did not ask any personal questions or, as far as I can tell, signal any romantic interest. For that matter, I didn't signal any interest, either, unless she interpreted my inability to wipe the grin off my face as a sign of interest. So here are my questions:

1. Would a woman give her number to someone so soon to someone she doesn't know, if she weren't interested in him?

2. Do some women just not signal interest? Or is it a sign of interest that she would want to talk to me? Or am I falling into the trap of thinking that any woman who doesn't splash me in the face with her drink must like me?

By the way, I don't know if she's spoken for - I forgot to ask! - but I've been told she's not.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hitman10000

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I'm not going to answer your questions cause it's practically a non-issue until you have sealed the deal and you haven't yet.

Give her a short call on Sunday night and ask her to join you for a drink/coffee after work on Tues/Wed.
 

KoalaKing

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I wouldn't bother to get a hot babes phone number until after I've kissed her and known that she was mine, its pointless, just work up the courage to kiss the girl, then you will quickly find out if she is interested in you or not. :cool:
 
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