"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hot woman gave me her number

Stavrogin

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I recently summoned up the courage to approach a woman (a total hottie) I have seen around at the office but don't know. As an excuse to approach her, I asked her for advice about something. Within a couple of minutes, she gave me her cell phone number (unsolicited) but continued to give advice for quite a while until I was forced to excuse myself. In other words, I don't think she gave me her number just to get me out of her hair. She spoke almost the entire time and did not ask any personal questions or, as far as I can tell, signal any romantic interest. For that matter, I didn't signal any interest, either, unless she interpreted my inability to wipe the grin off my face as a sign of interest. So here are my questions:

1. Would a woman give her number to someone so soon to someone she doesn't know, if she weren't interested in him?

2. Do some women just not signal interest? Or is it a sign of interest that she would want to talk to me? Or am I falling into the trap of thinking that any woman who doesn't splash me in the face with her drink must like me?

By the way, I don't know if she's spoken for - I forgot to ask! - but I've been told she's not.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hitman10000

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I'm not going to answer your questions cause it's practically a non-issue until you have sealed the deal and you haven't yet.

Give her a short call on Sunday night and ask her to join you for a drink/coffee after work on Tues/Wed.
 

KoalaKing

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I wouldn't bother to get a hot babes phone number until after I've kissed her and known that she was mine, its pointless, just work up the courage to kiss the girl, then you will quickly find out if she is interested in you or not. :cool:
 
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