"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hot vs Cute

illmatic1005

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whats the difference between getting called cute and hot from a girl?

i hear some girls call other guys cute and the same girls will say a guy is hot..

whats the difference?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Play the Game

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Hot > Cute.

Cute is equivalent of pretty, but Hot implies you would basically fvck that person given a chance.
You have more sex appeal if a girl calls you hot.
 

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Play the Game said:
Hot > Cute.

Cute is equivalent of pretty, but Hot implies you would basically fvck that person given a chance.
You have more sex appeal if a girl calls you hot.
Yea basically. Hot is definately better than cute, but cute can mean the same as hot depending on the girl/location. Some girls say a guy is cute so that they don't come off looking too sexually interested or whatever. Cute is ambiguous and can mean a couple of different things, hot isn't though. Basically take into consideration the context it's said in, and you should be able to figure out what the girl means.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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One's emotional, the other's physical.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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My girlfriend calls me cute, hot and or sexy. To me its all the same.
 

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Don't forget that hot may just be the word of the day. Forgive me for this but Paris Hilton is known for saying "Thats hot." I'm sure many girl imitate her style of speaking.

All in all it what matters most is how it was said, not what was said.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Maxtro said:
Don't forget that hot may just be the word of the day. Forgive me for this but Paris Hilton is known for saying "Thats hot." I'm sure many girl imitate her style of speaking.

All in all it what matters most is how it was said, not what was said.
Yes, in certin situations it could be that way.

Or as the old sayin... Its now what you say. Its how you say it.
 

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does it really matter? as long as you aren't "ugly" you have passed the phsysical attraction test.

I get called "handsome" alot, but very rarely "hot".. do you honestly think I give a ****? By the end of the night I'm still fvcking anyway.. it's not going to be any less of a fvck because I'm "handsome" and not "hot".. she's not going to put less in a ******* or anything
 

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thing is I think its subjective in which girls call you HOT or CUTE....i've been called both by different girls...so I really wouldn't know which is better than the other I guess it's just how they say it...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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