"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hot Streaks/Cold Streaks

TooColdUlrick

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chicks come in streaks, just like basketball players. sometimes that hoop is so big you can't miss, other times it's the size of a can of refried beans. there's a good degree of randomness in it, it seems.

however...

guys get streaky sometimes because you really get sick of the game. sometimes it's a part time (full time for some) job that comes with a lot of hassles and aggravation. right now, i'm in a "all chicks are fvcking biatches" mood.

i haven't even bothered making call backs or email replies to a good five chicks that seem like good leads. fvck 'em.

when you get the feeling like you're painting a fake smile on your face, step back and take break, recharge the batteries. if you don't you'll be pulling your hair out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wheelin&dealin

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Picking-up chicks is really all about probablities...

The more chicks you pick-up, the better chance you have of landing a girl. You'll obviously get shut down a number of times and this could lead to a cold streak, but you always want to give yourself the best chance of success. I think sports therapists tell it best...

"Don't concentrate on the outcome of the game, concentrate on the little things, in your control, that will give you the best chance of achieving a positive outcome. You cannot control the outcome of a game, because there could be bad breaks or unfortunate situations but you can do the things that may lead to postive outcomes."
 

ER!C L!VE

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Every guy I know has his down time with girls. For ome guys it lasts a few weeks, others last years. I haven't had a new girl since in the mix in a few months... kinda blows. That reminds me that I need to start sarging myspace tonight. Thx.
 

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Originally posted by TooColdUlrick
chicks come in streaks, just like basketball players. sometimes that hoop is so big you can't miss, other times it's the size of a can of refried beans. there's a good degree of randomness in it, it seems.

however...

guys get streaky sometimes because you really get sick of the game. sometimes it's a part time (full time for some) job that comes with a lot of hassles and aggravation. right now, i'm in a "all chicks are fvcking biatches" mood.

i haven't even bothered making call backs or email replies to a good five chicks that seem like good leads. fvck 'em.

when you get the feeling like you're painting a fake smile on your face, step back and take break, recharge the batteries. if you don't you'll be pulling your hair out.



If you're taking a break, give me some of their numbers, I'm in the L.A. area and I'm raring to go.
 
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