"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok, im new at the gym and I noticed this really hot chick the other day. About 5'10 and a perfect body (im 6'5). As i was leaving she was talking to somebody, but we made clear eye contact as I exited the gym.

The next time i go to the gym I see her again, this time I notice she's a personal trainer. Im leaving again, but this time she's behind me about 30 feet away working with someone. As im leaving I turn around and she's staring at me, and she quickly turns away. U think she's attracted to me, or pehaps sizing up a potential client?

Im going to talk to her next time i go there btw. Just want to get some advice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok well you ALREADY HESITATED TWICE NOW.........sheesh overthinking will be your undoing. NIKE-just do it...already.

she might have stared at your bald spot, sweat on your shorts, toilet paper hanging off your shoe...........WHO CARES what she starred at.........just turn around, wait for your window of opprtunity then say hi and do a simple extraction.

combine mystery method with a david Deangelo, say hi, speed seduce, get email/number and exit........should not take more than 2-3 minutes.

THis stuff works best if you just do it and not think about it.....
 
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COD said:
ok well you ALREADY HESITATED TWICE NOW.........sheesh overthinking will be your undoing. NIKE-just do it...already.

she might have stared at your bald spot, sweat on your shorts, toilet paper hanging off your shoe...........WHO CARES what she starred at.........just turn around, wait for your window of opprtunity then say hi and do a simple extraction.

combine mystery method with a david Deangelo, say hi, speed seduce, get email/number and exit........should not take more than 2-3 minutes.

THis stuff works best if you just do it and not think about it.....
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thanks, and yes overthinking has done me in many times in the past. (btw no bald spots)
 
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Hesitation is bad. You see an opening, you go for it. Who cares if she says no?

Even if she's one in a million (which I doubt) there are three hundred people just like her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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